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February 2010

01

Do guys wipe their penises off with tissue after they pee? I know there's a "shakedown" but isn't that unsanitary?

I hit it off with this guy I met last year. We ended up sleeping together. He stopped talking to me because he "hits it and quits it". I'm going to be seeing him this Thursday. I was wondering if I had a chance with this guy or not?

02

do guys compare current girlfriends with their exes ? Physically, in bed, or emotionally ?

What do you do about a guy you are completely in love with, but he is convinced you deserve better than him?

How can I get my boyfriend to stop asking me questions about my past? I told the truth about my sex number... and it's 4 more than he has slept with... now he is obsessed about knowing my sexual histories with guys.

I am a black belt in Tae Kwon Do and every time i tell a guy that, they get this freaked out look on their face. Is it really that intimidating?

I was with a guy for two years. Towards the end of the relationship, I cheated on him because I felt like he wasn't there for me, at all. When he found out, we broke up, and he wanted absolutely nothing to do with me, even when I apologized and begged for him back. I learned my lesson about cheating... Should I move on?

I'm dating a man who's absolutely perfect for me: hilarious, honest, hard-working, and treats me wonderfully. I'm very happy with him. One problem: he lives with his parents (age 28 and pays rent). He talks about moving out but hasn't. What's the deal?

Why can't guys understand that just because you're a single gal doesn't mean you want to date, and why do they always follow it up with "so you must me a lesbian then?"

03

My boyfriend is a fan of some porn model on Facebook. I guess I'm being immature and insecure with myself but it kind of bugged me. Do I say anything? Or just let it go?

Do you like Miley Cyrus or Selena Gomez?

Why do men prefer high maintenance, gorgeous women over easy going, attractive women?

If your girlfriend were to make you dinner at your apartment.. should she ask you what you want first ? Or is it ok to surprise you ?

Where is a good place to meet guys? I am over the gross guys I have met out at bars or clubs, you just don't find worthwhile guys, just guys that want ass. Do you have any suggestions of how to meet good relationship type guys?

Do the guys who are nicer to girls have a smaller penis then the guys who are ass holes? My friend has dated a lot of guys and told me the nicer they are, the smaller their penis is. Is this true?

My guy and I are poor college students. We've been fwb's since October, made it facebook official last month.Currently, he's broke. Is this a legit excuse for him to not give a V-day gift? Would it make him feel bad if I got/made him something? The best gifts are free, right? ;)

Oh Wise One, I require your sacred advice. There is this guy I flirt with sometimes, and its all good until the flirting turns into lewd comments. Is there a polite way to tell him he crossed the line without totally turning him off?

04

When your husband tells you he doesn't want to have a baby with you should u take it personally?

A guy who tells me every day he loves me adores me wants to take care of me and wants to marry me do you think he is committed to me?

What does he mean we need to end this?

while wearing a low-cut shirt should a guy still be expected to look at our eyes...at least every now and then?

I'm normally a confident person, but when it comes to attracting the attention of a guy, my confidence just leaves me altogether. What should I do to help boost my confidence around guys?

At what point in a relationship would you seek outside help? My on-again-off-again boyfriend wants to be on again. I think we should see a counselor to sort out our obvious problems, but he doesn't. I just want the cycle to end. Am I being unreasonable?

After the first date, is it bad if a gal calls up to three times to ask him out on another? Each call would be spaced out about every two or three days and would have a voice message,

05

Do guys REALLY believe in love at first sight? Or is it just a bunch of crap?

If you're a virgin but the guy doesn't know will he be able to tell that you are the first time you have sex with him? Or is it possible he wont even notice?

Is the guy I'm seeing still playing the field? His only MySpace friends are his drinking buddies, and he hardly talks to them offline. Yet he signs on to MySpace every couple days. Who is he talking to on there?

My ex and I still hook up and act couple-y. He tells me that he wants me to get over him but he still sticks around. Why?

Saw an email that stated: Nice pictures Mr. Boneder...what does this mean? Is this Mr. Boneder a saying among guys and does that mean hes sending sex pictures to his friends?

What do guys think about a girl who plays guitar and electric guitar, even when he can't play anything?

06

My boss is constantly making lewd jokes about women who come into the store. I guess he tells me because I'm the only one in earshot, but it's obnoxious. I've told him to stop and he just says I'm being too sensitive. How do I get him to shut up?

07

I'm entering a serious relationship with a really awesome guy. I know he is VERY experienced and I'm cool with it. I'm not that experienced. I'm open to trying things. But I'm nervous that I'm not enough for him. Is that a deal breaker?

I'm a woman moving in with six of my best guy friends. How do I survive?

08

How do you like your blow jobs?

So, since this is a site for women, how do we know you're not just telling us what we want to hear? Would you hold the same views, say, if this were Men.com?

i pretended to be someone else on facebook and talked to my boyfriend, and now he's totally in love with her. Should I confront him or shouldn't I?

09

I'm ridiculously horny right now. Besides sex, what's a good cure?

How do I convince my bf that I really don't want anything for Valentine's Day? He thinks I'm just saying it, and I'm afraid he's going to waste money on flowers or candy, which I honestly don't want.

My boyfriend asked his female friends for boob pics. Says it means nothing and it's like porn. Is this okay?

Dude, got a problem. I live with my fiancée. I'm not so sure about the whole relationship thing. I've never had a problem picking up girls. I miss the chase. After 3 years of being together I'm not sure I can stick out the relationship. What do I do?

I'm a 43 year old single mother of two. I've been dating this guy for 15 months and we have not gone out for dinner, movies, bowling, nothing except sex. Should I dump him or hold on?

10

Cheating is horrible, but do you think cheating by giving oral or having sex is worse? My boyfriend seems to think oral is more personal and hurtful. I think it's minor and sex means more.

Will my boyfriend ever stop playing Xbox? Am I wrong to be mad at him if I'm over and he decides to turn it on?

I met this great guy, but last night i drunk texted him. I am so embarrassed and don't know what to say to him. What do I do? From Kissanddish.com

How can i get over the vengeful feelings i have for my ex?

My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago but now he is coming around being all sweet and trying to win back my heart. If he wanted me so much, why couldn't he be that way the first time around?

11

Me and my best guy friend have this bet where we don't call each other. If I win, he has to give me a musical performance and if he wins he gets to take artsy and possibly nude photos of me. It's been a couple of weeks, could you give me insight into his thoughts or should I just call him and lose the bet?

I've been seeing a guy I met online for about a month. I'm ready to lock him down. Not sure if he's ready to lock me down. Is one month too soon to ask if he's dating/sleeping with other girls?

What do you think of body piercings, like a nipple ring or a clit piercing?

My boyfriend of four years broke up with me because he "felt differently about us." We have been apart for six months and we still talk. All of a sudden, he's cut off all communication with me. Why!?

12

I can't stop cyber-stalking my boyfriend's ex! He won't talk to me about his ex, so everything I know about her, I found out online. How can I stop obsessing over this?

I've been dating a guy 2 months & have never been to his house... he says he single & lives with 2 dogs, but why haven't I been invited over yet???

My husband's high school reunion is coming up and he doesn't want me to go because he says that he won't be able to pay any attention to me. His reunion is not like a lot of reunions, it's at a hotel and casino. They are also having a pool party, should I be really upset about him not wanting me to go?

Sometimes I squirt when I have an orgasm, is this something guys think is sexy, or does it gross them out?

My best friend of 9 years decided to stop being my friend because I dont get along with his "fiance", the catch is, he has not even known her for a year. I am still upset about the fact that he is letting some chick get in the way of our 9 year friendship since she doesnt approve of me because I am a girl. Suggestions?

Does it matter to guys if girls have a little bit of a tummy??

What does a guy mean when he says I'm really into you but its hard to tell if we could make a relationship work?

What do you say to a woman who hasn't dated in five years because she's afraid to get hurt again?

13

I'm 25 years old and I don't drink. It seems like most people my age do. Do you think that a guy would think I'm boring and don't know how to have fun if he finds out I don't drink?

How do I know a guy wants more than just sex?

I just started dating a guy I met online. Every time an attractive girl comes around, my date stares at the girl until there's eye contact. I'm actually surprised he hasn't broken his neck yet! I figure it's a bad sign if he's not trying to hide it out of respect for me. Am I right?

I'm scared if I tell him I want a relationship, I'll lose him as a friend. We have been "friends with benefits" for a year now, and I thought that was enough but it's not.

14

Female pubic hair...yay or nay?

15

Hi Mr. Jackson, I love your honesty so I chose you to ask. I have been dating my ex for over a year exclusively. We are having a blast and this is the best time we ever had together! Actions speak louder than words so, when will I know I am his girlfriend again if he hasn't directly said girlfriend?

My boyfriend doesn't like kissing me and I LOVE to kiss. In my last relationship, we kissed a lot; my new guy and I kiss about once a week. How do I get him to enjoy it?

I just found out the guy I am seeing has a long distance girlfriend (they have apparently been on and off, but are now "on"). I sent a politely worded 'we need to talk' email. Tonight I have to tell him I know. How do I go about this?

16

What do guys think about a girl who plays the piano?

How do you get your boyfriend to quit or cut back on smoking?

My husband is not my children's father and he treats them like they are the worst kids on the planet. He fusses at them constantly and it's getting old. We broke up once because of it and he promised to do better. I love him very much, any advice?

I need some tips for flirting with a bartender. He has sleeves of tattoos and piercings but I'm a blond hair, blue eyed girl next door type. I don't think I'm his type... how can I possibly catch his interest?

17

My ex boyfriend came over on V-Day and told me that he wants to try again but wants to take things slow but he won't talk about the problems we had that broke us up. What does that mean in guy language?

I've been in a long distance relationship for two years now, and hadn't seen my guy in about a month. We finally got some time alone and I tried to get something started, and he stopped me. Should I be worried?

Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?

Hey there mystery guy, so I'm getting married next week and I told my boy friend that I was virgin but I really ain't what should I do???????????????

Is it possible to train your boyfriend? Teach him what girls like and don't like (bring her flowers, taking her out, no burping etc.)? Most girls seem to try but does it actually work?

How can I ask a guy that I'm hooking up with for the night if I can spend the night?

18

How do you feel about prenups? Yea or nay?

Why do black men prefer woman of the opposite race?

Okay so here is a good ol' "insecure woman" kind of a question, will a guy make out with a girl if he doesn't want to? Like if he felt sorry for her or she initiated it?

If you told someone you loved them can you take it back? Also, if you are having doubts that you love someone should you tell them?

What's a nice way to tell my boyfriend that he needs to "manscape?" I mean, I keep mine clean shaven; the least he could do is trim it up a bit, right?

Does the old rule "He won't buy the cow if he's getting the milk for free" hold true? If I like someone then I want to fool around (i.e. bone) and not play the games...does that automatically disqualify me as girlfriend material?

If I'm fat (not morbidly obese, but chunky) is there any way that a guy will be able to see past that..ever?

19

Is it normal for guys to have a white residue on "themselves" before they shower or when they wake up? And I'm not referring to any white residue from ejaculation. I mean otherwise.

My husband has cheated on me twice in 2 years, he has also stayed in contact with his x g/f , i just recently found this all out he would stay gone all hrs of the night sometimes never coming home, he told me he wants to change i said we'll take it day by day, he started disappearing again 3 days ago whats he thinking?

What is the male opinion on lip piercings? I am thinking about getting the side of my lip pierced and want to know if guys will think i'm easy or if it would deter a man?

When (and how) in a relationship do you reveal that you were once obese, but have lost weight due to weight loss surgery? And would it be a turnoff to you?

How do you know if you're in a guy's friend zone?

If a guy tells you he wants a "committed, yet casual and exclusive relationship" what does that mean?

One date. OK, a GREAT one date, but still one date. He sent me a Facebook friend request. I don't want him to be moving too fast. Is he? That's kinda a 5 or more dates thing, don't you think? What to do?

My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?

20

What are your thoughts on long distance relationships? Are they worth the work it would take?

21

I've been having bad dreams about my boyfriend almost every night, always of him not being in love with me or falling in love with other girls. Recently, he told me he doesn't see a future with me, but doesn't want to break up. What should I do?

What does it mean when you first start seeing someone and the first night they stay over, they leave somethings behind, ie. boxers and socks?

22

walnuts or peanuts?

What is the deal with men's body wash? The scent is always way too strong and much harsher than women's body wash. Do guys really like smelling like car fresheners?

Me & my husband just got married, but he is a virgin & I'm not (I have a 3 yr old... which he loves like his own). I want to have sex, but, he told me he is scared that he will suck (we are 23) and he thinks something is wrong with him. How do i get him to relax, so we can have an intimate and great experience?

Is being called {wifey} a good thing?

23

If my boyfriend has had sex with his ex since we've been together and says its nothing it will never happen again but they still text and say they love each other does it mean he's still sleeping with her?

If you see a girl who is a flat-out 10 (on a scale of hotness), but she's with a girl who's a 6 or maybe 7, would you still talk to her/hit on her? And if you did, would there be any chance you would go out of your way to talk to the 6 or just ignore her?

ok you seem like a guy who would kno about this...so me n this guy are FWB...he has a gf and he says he loves her, so why does he still mess around with me? does he like me or have feelings for me?

Maybe I've been watching too much "He's just not that into you," but I refuse to text a guy first. If he is interested he will text me. Not only the first time, but like as we date he should always text me first. How do guys feel about this?

24

Met a friend of a friend, hung out and he called me almost every night. After a little more than a month we finally kissed. The calls and hanging out stopped after that night. I am confused. Why is he avoiding me?

I am an attractive, educated, and intelligent female who after 15+ years of marriage is now divorced. I am shocked to learn that my ex has now decided to pursue a gay lifestyle. Although I have nothing to do with his decision. I have to wonder what guys think about ME when they learn my ex is now gay ?

My boyfriend acts shady around me when he gets a phone call or a text message. He says he has issuses with privacy and that he doesn't like people knowing what he's doing all the time. Do I have the right to feel like he's hiding another girl from me?

What kind of clothes really catch a man's eye?

Double dates. What are your thoughts?

I'm a divorced woman. I have a male friend that I am very attracted to, also divorced. He does not want commitment right now, and I'm okay with that. I want to be intimate with him, but can find no classy way to ask and remain friends. How do I make a move?

how do you tell your guy (who prides himself on his body and the amount of time he spends at the gym) that his belly is HUGE and looks really unhealthy?

How to tell my guy to go down for me..without saying anything

25

I'm 24 and I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. I really love him, but recently I am beginning to feel like we don't have a future together. Do I end something that is good now if I feel like it won't work later?

How long does a guy need to date before he commits? All I am asking is for an engagement.

Hey Cary, I'm a single mom. My son is 6 years old and I really want to date but find that I'm blocked. I don't want to parade a bunch of men in and out of my sons life. How do I go about the dating scene with a young child in tow?

What's horchata?

Does it mean anything for a girl (in guys point of view) if her guy friends have mentioned how they think her mom is "so hot", "so fine" etc. What about the girl?!

26

My fiance said that now he just wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend and that he wants my "engagement ring" to be a "promise ring" . We been engaged for 2 years and he now decides to just stay boyfriend and girlfriend. Im confused. what should i do?

Ok so I was seeing this guy for a week. We were official...i think. Anywho, i havent heard from him in a week. Should i call him to break it off officially or just not contact him at all?

so when you bf tells you that four years is too soon to start thinking about getting married and that we should wait ten, what does that mean?

is it unattractive to be sweaty at the gym?

I'm getting married soon but I found out my fiance was cheating on me. He was really calm when I confronted him. I asked him why he didn't seem sorry. He says he doesn't show his feelings on his face. I think he's still cheating on me, what should I do?

Do guys really find bisexual girls hot? I mean, I'm bisexual but don't see what the big deal is when guys start panting like dogs when they learn that I have a girlfriend.

Can a really romantic movie persuade or even change a guy's mind about you when he sees it? Does it even affect guys?

28

I'm 22 and my Mom is worried that I've only ever had relationships that last about six months. She fears I have commitment problems, but it's really just that I want to concentrate on my studies and my friends. Is this normal?

Okay honestly what is it with some guys liking twins?! I'm a twin and guys always make comments saying like ooohh twins along with other stuff. Please enlighten me John!

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