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August 2010

01

do guys call you back after they stonewall you for months?

My crush at work is constantly making non-harmful jokes about everyone at work, so how will I know if he seriously likes me?

This guy I know plays the "numbers" game. He tells 100 women he loves them and out of that maybe 50 will respond back to him. He's so sly that you can't tell he does this, so how do you avoid men like this while trying to find a worthwhile one?

02

I love Mad Men and as a girl who has always been unusually curvy, I love Joan and her style. Recently I've been Joan-ifying my wardrobe. But just out of interest, are only women loving the early 60's look on women, or do men like it too? (Also, do you only like it FOR women, or are you all dying to sport fedoras?)

Casual sex relationship for 10mths. Found out about a fling with another woman so I said if it's over between us just tell me and he never said yes or no but he made plans to see me that night and continues to. Does this action mean he's really into me?

03

HJ?

I can't climax with penetration only. During sex, when my bf is 'done', we're done. He won't pleasure me because, as he put it, "women are too complicated and it's too hard to get them to climax." What's the deal and how do I get him to want to do that?

04

why do men look at other women when they are with you?

I recently got a pixie cut that I love. I do have feminine features (big lips/eyes) and there's no way you could mistake me for a boy but I'm still worried guys will prefer women with long hair or wonder if I'm gay. Will the price of super cute hair be a bit of a drought in the dude department?

05

Ok, this may sound stupid but here goes...I want to find a wealthy woman who can pay me for my time. Yes, you probably know where this is going. I cannot find a job and I am running out of ideas.

After 4 months of a great relationship, why would a guy just stop calling? Seriously, everything "appeared" to be going great...but now he stopped calling, won't return my calls or texts. What's going on?

I just discovered that my boyfriend has been mutually masturbating with people or just having them encourage him on chatroulette, do you consider this cheating?

Why would you stand a woman up?

What do you do when you still have feelings for your ex? Not good ones either, murderous ones actually.

I am a very tall girl with brown hair, I'm also very curvy. Here's my problem: Not one guy will go out with me. They're always staring at my size 40D boobs and my hazel eyes, They act sweet around me, they seem interested in me, but the wont go out with me. I've never had a boyfriend, and I don't understand why.

06

why do people always ask the same questions on this site?

Me n this chick were in an unofficial relationship however, we seemed super official. (meeting friends, being around family etc.) So official in fact, EVERYONE thought we were an item. (said she "didnt wna b in a relationship.") Shortly after she gets a boyfriend, and is IN A RELATIONSHIP. wth? Did I miss something?

08

My boyfriend of six months has an album on his Facebook page with pictures of his ex wife. He set it to private so only he can see them. Why would he still have it up there?

my bf watches granny porn, should i be concerned????

09

The guy I'm into is great! He's funny and always lets me know what he thinks about me. Problem? He has no drivers license and no job. He's 20 years old! Should this be a deal breaker? I'm thinking it is.

If you were a girl which panel member would you date?

Is no sex a deal-breaker? I'm religious and take sex really seriously, and I don't plan to sleep with anyone until marriage is in the picture. I haven't had much luck dating guys with similar beliefs. Is it even worth looking to other guys?

If a guy invites you to see a movie with him and some friends after you guys have already hung out twice alone, does that mean he just isnt that into you?

I live in Alaska and do not live in an igloo. Alaska chicks rock!

Until recently, I was engaged to an amazing man.The long distance didn't bother us, but his racism, jealousy, and lack of compassion for others hurt me. He was never cruel to me in any way, but refuses to change. Should I go back to him?

I went on a bad date with this guy I work with. He keeps asking me to hang out again. I feel bad so I keep agreeing. How do I get him to back off with hurting his feelings?

10

Dear King Jackson... Just wondering, do guys generally prefer the "talkative interesting girl" or a "quieter smart girl"? To talk or not to talk...that is the question! That said of course you should "be who you are" but...to get noticed, you have to play by certain rules...in order to catch the fish...right?

If you were in a serious relationship with a girl and she told you that, eventually, she wanted to have kids AS WELL AS ADOPT, would that scare you away?

What would be the best way to propose to someone? Something she would absolutely have to say yes to because it's just that good?

My boyfriend has to travel a lot for his job. One of his newly added friends on Facebook is a girl from a city he stayed in last week. Should I be worried?

I told him I didn't love him. He's hurt. I'm hurt. But it's true. What now?

11

If my boyfriend is willing to pay half of my gym membership because I can't afford it by myself, does that mean that he wants me to work out so bad he's willing to pay the money?

O Great Wise-Ass, my boyfriend is shy and doesn't seem very comfortable with much PDA. How should I go about trying to get him to be a little more affectionate in public?

What does it mean when a guy will only come to your apartment and won't take you out?

I just turned 36 and am not married. When I tell people I want kids they ask "are you going to adopt or do artificial insemination?." Are they serious? I'm not too old for a guy to want to marry me and father my children, am I?

12

My married boyfriend dumped me because my husband found out. Now I'm unhappy, they're both pissed off and what the hell do I do now?

Do guys read meaning into song lyrics? Can a guy like a love song just because or is it usually because it reminds him of a girl he likes? Is telling a girl to listen to said love song a passive form of communication?

How can I know a guy is a player by looking at him?

13

From a heterosexual female: if I get turned on by myself, am I vain?

14

My affair of one year was discovered by my hubby of 20 years. My lover and I were going to get divorces and move in together. Now that we are caught, he won't do it. I never thought of leaving before, and with my "out" gone, I've nowhere to go. Why do I still want to leave?

What do you think when you see a modestly dressed Jewish woman who has a beautiful face? Do you think she is sexy or will you not even give her a second glance just because she is Jewish?

15

What are you supposed to do when you have a 100% proof that your brother-in -low is cheating on your sister with men?

16

My S.O. wants to "take care of me". What does he mean?

Girls' BFF can you be my BFF for one minute since my guy friends are too busy w other girls?! Okay-I only like to meet guys through mutual friends. I don't like talking or meeting guys in bars, the beach, stores, dating websites etc. bc I have a hard time trusting guys in general-I've been hurt. WHAT DO I DO?

17

Two and a half years ago, at the age of 21, I won three episodes of Jeopardy. Whenever a guy finds out, his attitude towards me changes. Am I right to think that they're intimidated and/or scared of me? I don't tell guys up front, but they always seem to find out anyway.

I've been hooking up with this guy for about four months. We don't see each other often, but the past few times together he's been more affectionate towards me. How can I tell if he is really beginning to have more interest in me other than just sex?

I recently bumped into an ex and I would like to send him an email letting him know that I would like to see him again...what can I say?

My boyfriend tells me he refuses to get married until he's 35. This is 9 years away and i would be 38. Is it worth staying hoping that he may reconsider his timeframe or should I cut and run if that does not work for my time frame?

What are your thoughts on time travel? Are you a "Go back in time and kill Hitler" kind of guy, or a "step on a butterfly, end the world" kind of guy?

He e-mails his ex that I (his new gf) am perfect for him and he recognizes good in me he wouldn't have noticed if not for their relationship. He told her he's a changed man and better boyfriend because of her. Why does he feel the need to tell her this?

18

This guy that I like recently had started texting me and started calling me "baby." After a while he told me that he liked me and I told him that I liked him, but like 30 minutes after that he implied that he was texting the wrong person. How am I supposed to know if he was or not because he has had my # forever!!

Is it normal for my husband to only be friends with women and spend hours on the phone with them?

should i confront my husband about catching him masterbating he dont know that i see him do it

19

I would love to have this answered by all of our guyspeak men, but what, in your opinion, are the top three things that tend to annoy men about women the most?

Okay, say you meet the girl of your DREAMS. After 2 years of dating, you find out that she was born with a vagina AND a vestigial penis. However, she had the penis removed at birth. She can still have babies. What would YOU, John DeVore, do?

20

After 10 yrs, my hubby still keeps pushing to have a threesome. Now I'm pretty open-minded and do a lot for him, but I have made it clear that is one thing that will never happen. How do I make him stop bugging me about it?

This sounds like an easy solution but I'm struggling- I like sex, and when I meet an attractive guy it usually is only 2 dates before I go for it. I always enjoy it right then and for a few days after but then I have Put-Outers-Remorse. Not sure why. Do I stop?

How do you know when a guy only wants you for sex? What are the signs?

I met this guy a month ago and said I was a sports fan (using the term liberally and trying to impress him). He messaged me talking about sports stuff that I didn't really care about before transitioning into regular conversation. Does he like me or is he just looking for someone to talk sports with?

21

My boyfriend's best friend recently made a pass at me, suggested I sleep with him and not tell my boyfriend. Should I tell my boyfriend or let it be? They have been best friends for 8 years and I've only been dating my guy 7 months.

22

How much grooming is required if you are meeting a girl just to "hang out?" Could you compare and contrast this with the amount of grooming needed for a formal date?

Do you think a boy still likes you even if he pretended he never asked you out?

23

In your opinion, what are some things that can clue a girl into a guy's assholishness? Like, I have the inkling that this guy I was recently with is a dbag bc when I said I didn't plan on taking my pants off for him he said "you know you want to."

Do guys really make fun of other guys for being circumcised or not?

Have all you Guys actually met each other, or do you just read and answer questions from home, instead of at some 'Guyspeak HQ?'

can a women keep a relationship going if she gives her man all her money to support his habit cause she loves him?

Why do guys go MIA. I'm not talking about, disapearing after a few dates, or the first month, I'm talking about over a year of dating. Then poof, just out of the blue gone. Enlighten me John. And don't pretend you've never done the disapearing act.

I sent an email via Facebook to a guy I knew 20 years ago. I just recently found him on FB and all he could say was, "OMG! How are you?" Why so few words considering how long it's been?

My male friend has a new girlfriend and he wants me to stop calling him and he will call me instead at the end of the week.

My boyfriend fell asleep while i was giving him head last night. Is this normal? He drank alot. but i'm just worried i suck/it was boring. I was offended but usually people tell me i give good head. Should i apologize for getting so mad at him?

24

I know you receive many a question about guys disappearing on girls. I'm more concerned with closure - is it reasonable to ask him the reason(s) behind his Houdini act? I'm debating whether I should send the schmuck a "what gives?" email or just move on.

I met my boyfriend online. I want to do a background check on him for peace of mind for me & my family. How do I ask him if that's ok? Its understandable, right?

What would make a man never give oral even when my hygeine is immaculate? I mean never, even after MANY years of being together and married. It's obviously not a deal-breaker, and everything else is great.

Is it possible to be in love with someone but not know with who?

What do two people do with a mutually felt earth-shatteringly strong connection and monumentally bad timing?

25

I'm a lesbian, but sometimes I have sex with my guy friends just 'cause I don't care or I feel bad for them. My best friend recently admitted to having a "crush" on me. Should I stop sleeping with him?

How much of an age difference is too much, I am 19 and he is 26 and he has a four year old daughter. Is he just looking to get laid, or is he for real.

I've been dating a guy I met online for a few months, and things are going really well. I never deactivated my profile, but after we started dating I stopped answering emails/talking to anyone else. I recently noticed that was still on the site as well, and online pretty often. What do i say to ask him to quit?

This is probably a stupid question but my fiance will be moving into my place on Saturday and I'm a little nervous. I've never lived with a boyfriend before. Any words of advice so I can make this transition as smooth as possible for both of us?

26

I'm very patient with my Scorpio man but he's so stubborn and mean. Should I leave or stay?

What does it mean when a guy says to you "I'm glad we can still be friends," and then never has any contact with you ever again?

Hey Panama, so...I direct theater and last night I got asked out by one of my actors - so I know him pretty well. He's a great guy, my age, same interests, relatively attractive...but I don't sense any chemistry. Is it worth giving it a try when I'm not feeling Cupid's zing?

How much of Lyfe Jennings' "Statistics" do you agree with?

He broke up with me countless times because he doesn't want a 'ball and chain', 'to go with the flow', yet he keeps coming back. What gives!

27

Dear BFF, How in Pete's name can I get my friends to stop trying to set me up?! I got out of a serious relationship 9 months ago, and have been VERY happily single since, but they keep ignoring me and trying to "alleviate" my current state, like it's a freaking disease! Advice, pretty please?

28

Do you love me?

"And you know, technically, I have a girlfriend." What the hell does that mean? This was one of the reasons given to me when a guy that's been flirting with me at work suddenly went all deep on me. The other reason: "You'd get sick of me."

What are the signs you're just a rebound?

29

How much do guys actually listen to their mothers when picking a girl?

I'm constantly getting heartbroken and everyone tells me to "get over it" or "let it go" ... which is easy to say and hard to do. How do you actually move on?

30

How do I turn friends with benefits into more?

I'm one of those "pretty but lonely" girls that gets double-takes and stares all the time...but I rarely get approached. What gives?! Is there anything I can do to give my would-be suitors the green light.....?

My mom wants to move in with my boyfriend and me because she says she can't find a job. We both get along ok with her, but I would prefer that she get a place of her own. I worry that it will affect my relationship in a negative way. Thoughts please?

31

I'm travelling over 3,000 miles to visit my boyfriend (arriving on our 1st anniversary)! I can't wait to see him, 'cept his mother expects me to sleep in his sister's room! Claiming that we 'need our space'. What do we do?

Is it weird to have pet names in the form of Pokemon? I have an odd habit of doing this to almost every guy I want to get romantic with. First, it was Psyduck. Then it was Growlithe. Now I'm all over Mightyena. Would you get turned off by immaturity or be intrigued by slight creativity?

My freinds at work are trying to set me up on a blind date,the only problems are he lives in a differant town and neither of us drive. Is it worth pursueing, or should I tell my friends "thanks, but no thanks"??

Of all the dinosaurs, which one do you most resemble in traits...and/or which dinosaur traits would you most like to have?

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