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September 18, 2012

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Q: Awhile back I wrote you about moving 3000 miles away and still google stalking my ex. You said stop, I stopped. I've met the most magnificent man. We knew each other (kinda) as kids and now we're adults. We have a lot in common. I haven't felt this way in a long time, possibly ever. Thanks for helping with my crazy. :)

A: You know, we don't often get a chance to hear back from anybody on whether or not any words we've provided make a differ...

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Q: It took my boyfriend a while to get used to my high sex drive, but now he interprets EVERYTHING as a proposition that we do the deed. Includin things like "hey, didn't get much sleep last night, if I'm going to make it through this dinner party I'm going to need a nap." How do I clarify without temeringhis enthusiasm?

A: This is a funny problem to have. Your boyfriend is literally afraid that you want to have sex all the time. That...is fu...

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Q: I just want to know: if a guy tells other women that he's single & you've been dating for 4 years, what does it mean? he's a very serious person & very jealous to the point that he checks my phone every time and asks about the guys. i just want to know why does he do that? is he bored of me? what can i do to stop it?

A: To stop him being a jerk? Nothing. It's past time to dump him. Seriously, he's extending you no trust. He's certainly sh...

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Q: My boyfriend becomes distant when he's stressed. I take it personally. What can I do to be supportive?

A: Stress affects everyone differently. Some people get cold and distant, others get angry and combative, and still others ...

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Q: How do you stop leading a guy on? I keep "flirting" without meaning to. I'm just treating him like I would treat any other guy-friend, but he thinks I'm in love with him! Help!

A: You're not flirting. You're being yourself. If he wants to think you're flirting, that's his problem, not yours. You are...

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Q: I'm a waitress, but I'm looking for a career in the industry I want to be in. I've been applying to various positions (I don't mind working from the bottom to get up) in companies that I want to be with. Mom discourages this and wants me to apply anywhere, as long as it means more pay. Am I wrong to disagree with her?

A: You sound like a driven and hardworking woman with a very clear sense of what you want to do with your life. And you're ...

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Q: i just dropped the guy i have been seeing for the past seven years and it really bothers me that he doesnt get why i wont talk to him anymore. He didn't want to put in the effort towards the relationship, and he drinks too much, among a list of things wrong. how do i get through to him that i cant be with him anymore?

A: Easy, don't talk to him. Look, he's not going to get it. Obviously the guy's got some problems with his life that he nee...

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