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November 2, 2012

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Q: Alright. Girls' BFF, I neeeed help! I met a guy, we've been talkin for months.We live 200 miles apart, and, cuz of mismatched colleges, it'll be 5 years before we can be anything. I think he's "the one," & he feels the same, but doesn't want a relationship. Should I ask about an open relationship? Is he worth pursuing?

A: Depends on your definition of an open relationship. Does that mean you want to stay in contact but be able to date other...

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Q: I am getting divorced, but I still love my husband. He said he does not loves me anymore and broke my heart. Should I look beautiful and sexy at our divorce hearing or would that look desperate?

A: I think you should do whatever you need to do to feel better about yourself in that situation. If looking hot works, the...

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Q: my boyfriend of 8 years recently told me he didn't want a girlfriend anymore. He admitted he had been purposefully doing things to hurt me. He said he still loves me and he doesn't know what is making him do this. We are best friends. He says maybe he needs time. I just don't want to be strung along.

A: If your boyfriend says he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore, it means that he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore. And his...

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Q: This guy asked me out. Turns out he's 32, divorced, and has 2 kids. He doesn't seem like a creep and seems genuinely nice...but I'm in my early 20's and hesitant. Why would a 30-something guy want to date a 22 year old anyway?

A: Because he thinks you're hot. Look, if you're hesitant, don't do it. I'm sure you're right, that he's a nice guy, but he...

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Q: Is it normal to have a love/hate relationship with your significant other that you have been dating for nine months?

A: If your version of "love/hate" is the same as my version, then you need to run for the hills. For me, a "love/hate" rela...

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Q: So I have a BFF, whose been my friend for ages. But he's a guy... I just got a bf, and I've been spending a lot if time with both him! Yet, I feel like I'm "cheating" on my BFF with my bf...

A: Trust me...you're not. In fact, you are going to have to realize that in the real world, at some point, the BFF will sta...

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Q: You gotta pick me for this one! What is your perspective on the election and why? Thanks for the response and answer!

A: I picked you! Here are my (admittedly scattered, Hurricane Sandy-addled) thoughts: -- Politically we're all a lot more s...

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Q: if you can't stop thinking about your ex after five years and they have moved on would you tell the ex that you can't stop thinking about them and would like a friendship or something of some sort to get over your feelings seeing that you didn't have proper closure and still unsure of why the break up happend?

A: Instead of being indirect about this, try being direct instead. Send him a letter, saying that how your relationship end...

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