November 5, 2012

Q: would you buy used guys underwear?

A: If you're asking me, is it weird, gross, nasty and 100% icky for your man to wear used underwear, the answer is yes. Thr...

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Q: Alrighty. So you've answered the question of the 'wake-up' blow job, what about greeting him with a BJ as he gets home from work, and only afterward asking about his day?

A: As a concept who wouldn't want to be embraced by their lover's loving lips first thing upon entering their house? And ye...

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Q: This guy I'm dating doesn't pay for me. I always am paying for myself or both of us sometimes. It's getting old really quick. He has a ton of bills and a new house. Should I cut him slack or be worried? We have only been dating four months.

A: That's lame. He never pays for you? Fail. Call me old-fashioned. I think the guy should pay more often, at least in the ...

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Q: my girlfriend gets wet over another guy, is that normal or bad?

A: If you mean physically wet, like soiling her panties when he's around, then no and yes. No, not normal and yes, bad. If ...

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Q: I'm 18 and a virgin and a while ago a guy went down on me for the first time, after we were making out and one of my pubic hairs went into my mouth from him going down, I acted like nothing happened, but I was so embarrassed, I mean I keep myself clean and trim down there. does that kind of stuff happen normally?

A: I've read and reread your question and I can't make sense of it. Not entirely, but luckily enough to take a stab. Oral s...

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Q: MM major guy problem so I slept with this totally hot girl from work. We were both a bit drunk.. I had fun and hope for something more... But she disappeared in the morning.. I see her at work and now she's all distance and cool.. Why is she acting this way? What should I do? Help I really like her...

A: Hooking up and dating are both very dangerous in the workplace, and the stories very rarely have happy endings. When two...

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Q: Please help me figure out if I'm being played! This guy keeps telling me that I'm amazing, he likes me a lot and feels close to me but also that he wants to have sex with me. We live about 160 miles apart and I only see him if I go to him. Same with texts and phone calls because he's "busy". Should I just move on?

A: Yes, you're being played. Yes, you should move on. If he really cared about you, he would show the same interest that yo...

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Q: I dated a man 10 years older than me. We went on 5 dates and he just disappeared. We always had a nice time. What happened?

A: There are several things that could've caused the sudden disappearance. He could've gotten incredibly busy at work, or h...

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Q: Is it awkward or uncomfortable for a tall guy (6'1"ish) to grind with a girl who is about 5'1"? Like if the top of my head is about in line with the top of his shoulders?

A: A very popular question that is always met and commented on in the same fashion. Tall men and short ladies know what the...

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Q: My boyfriend told me that when I'm telling him my problems, he really doesn't care. He told me that it's my problem and I should fix it by myself. I mean, why wouldn't he? That's one point of being in a relationship, right? What does he simply mean by that?

A: What he's saying is that he's a jerk and that you should dump him. Not directly, of course, but realistically, if you're...

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Q: Does skin tone turn a guy off? Since I was born, I've never been able to tan. So my skin tone is pale. More pale than the vampires in those movies. I think I haven't been real productive with guys cause there's a tan girl next to me. Help?

A: What do you mean, there's a tan girl next to you? Every time you're around a guy she's next to you? Are you a conjoined ...

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