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November 9, 2012

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Q: My ex won't leave me alone. We broke up a year ago and because the break up was so bad (he sent hate messages for a week) I told him I couldn't be just friends with him. A few months ago he started sending me messages again. I tried answering the first few to ask him to please leave me alone, but he won't stop. Thoughts?

A: Go to the police immediately. You are being stalked, and your guy sounds dangerous. (Who sends hate messages for a week ...

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Q: Anyone seeing Twilight breaking dawn?! How do I get my bf to see it with me? (he hates the series)

A: No self-respecting dude wants to sit through that bullshit. Take a girlfriend. If you make your bf go, he will never for...

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Q: I snuck an older cat into my on campus apartment (it's big, not like keeping a cat in a dorm), found her and it's obvious she was an abandoned indoor pet, so sweet, spayed, and scared of outside, but none of the vets had heard of her missing. How do I tell my parents I'm bringing her home over break?

A: Did you have the cat scanned* for a microchip at the vet? You must do that! Just asking if the vet has heard about a mis...

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Q: My BF just found out he has a baby with a woman he slept with before meeting me (so nearly a yr ago). She told him she had an abortion (which he wanted) but now 13 mos later she's contacted him telling him he's a dad. Our world has been rocked & I'm afraid of the changes this child will bring. How do I handle this?

A: Well, honestly, a lot depends on how he handles it. If he just signs child support checks and that's it, probably it won...

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Q: Hi Pananama, my BF loves me, but I feel like he doesn't appreciate me. When he thinks he might lose me he clings tightly and gets all romantic, but when he gets comfortable.. well he's comfortable. How can I express that i'm feeling neglected without causing a fight? Or am I guilty of expecting too much?

A: First, thank you for remixing my name. I always wanted a second "n". The best way to express it is to do just that. Let ...

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Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 years. We live together and have talked about having children and getting married about a year ago. However, he has still not proposed and I do not want to have children unless we are married. Is he serious about getting married or telling me what I want to hear?

A: Don't compromise. If you want to wait for marriage, wait for marriage. Your big goal in the coming months is to let your...

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