November 19, 2012

Q: ok, I have been going out with a guy who is 14 years older then me and is going through a divorce, its been almost a year now... and he has been so secretive about his cell phone, should I be worried?

A: Yes, you should be very worried.... about your judgment in general. Dating someone 14 years your elder - though I don't ...

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Q: What should one do if they find there boyfriend's phone has girls having sex with animals videos? Is this normal if not acted upon? Maybe just thrill porn? I have deleted them, and I think he knows I did that but we havent talked about it... and i really don't want to. Are those videos illegal?? I think they should be

A: I'll give it you - this falls under the deeply awkward to profoundly troubling category. That said, if we are all to be ...

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Q: What exactly is a shocker to a girl

A: Correct me if I'm wrong (and I may very well be), but I assume you mean the finger position "shocker" and not the basic ...

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Q: My ex-boyfriend was emotionally abusive. Thing is, I was a bitch. It's five years later. Is it too late to apologize?

A: Okay, so you both sucked. Five years ago. Why exactly do you want to reach out and apologize now? For the record, accord...

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Q: BFF, I feel like KFC that I'm just finger lickin' good. So um how do I tell my boyfriend I would like to lick his fingers after he makes me cum manually? Also is this request a little weird? :)

A: Weird? Naw. Kinky? Yes. A bit freaky? Absolutely. Both traits that many a man would like. Of course there are a few guys...

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Q: Hello, WA. I just broke up with my boyfriend of eleven months because I was stressed and didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. He seems to be unhappy. Is there a way I can console him?

A: Well, yeah, he's unhappy--you dumped him! That tends to bum people out. But hey, you had your reasons and you did what y...

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Q: A lot of new guy friends are incredulous when they find out I'm not dating anyone, but very few guys I like ever ask me out! Can you think of reasons why that is?

A: There are many reasons why a guy doesn't ask a girl out, but they fall into a five general categories: -"I Don't Find He...

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Q: I'm in an open long distance relationship. it's great, we both love it. but now, I'm pregnant. obviously It's not his. how do I even bring this up?! "hey hunny? know how you except my first two kids? what if two were now three?" please help!

A: Yes, you should be very worried.... about your judgment in general. Dating someone 14 years your elder - though I don't ...

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Q: Do guys find tomboys attractive? If so, what makes them attracted to one?

A: Shared interests, mostly. It's hard to talk to the opposite sex sometimes. Shared interests go a long, long way towards ...

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Q: Why do men feel the need to cat-call? Do they really think it works? I've never heard one of those annoying How We Met stories that started with, "Well,I knew he was a catch right off the bat because the first time he saw me, he wolf-whistled! awwww" It wouldn't even work on a one-night-stand. What gives?

A: Some men, when surrounded by other men, like to behave like idiots. These men are usually idiots deep down, but that idi...

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Q: hello :) im 37yrs im 4foot11 weigh 80lbs and disabled ..my question is why does my disability matter? are guys just embarrassed to be seen with someone thats disabled? i'm cute/pretty lol soo whats the deal??? the only guys that dont care are not so good looking lol..please answer honestly

A: My Dear Lady, As you know, your stats aren't often (ever) celebrated on the cover of Cosmo and Vogue. In our society the...

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