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Q: Will a guy not ask a girl coworker out because of fear of getting in trouble in the work place (for sexual harrassment) or is it more of fear of rejection?

A: No, a guy won't ask a coworker out because he's smart. Forget fear of rejection of fear of a sexual harrassment charge (...

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Q: My BF is acting different. My gut tells me to leave but my hormones tell me to stick it out. Problem is I'm married 9yrs. Hubby is aware of the open relationship. But how do I get the BF to chill and just enjoy!

A: Jeepers, there's a lot going on here. Let me begin by saying that I have written about "open relationships" before, and ...

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Q: I live in Finland and the guys are nice-looking but they seem to be a bit shy. I mean even if I smile to them they seem to be a bit terrified. Should I just go and speak to them?

A: Wow, I didn't realize all the guys in Finland were shy. How tragic. Perhaps you should head on over to Sweden or Norway....

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Q: I've been talking to this guy for the last 6 weeks, and about a week ago he tells me he wants to be with me. I replied by saying "Let's see what happens." In the last few days he has not been calling at night, even though we text & talk throughout the day. What's up with that?

A: He's not calling because you kind of blew him off. "Let's see what happens" might be your way of saying you want to get ...

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Q: Is there a tell or a way that a girl can tell if a guy is in a relationship? because sometimes asking can be very nerve wrecking and awkward when getting to know a guy.

A: While it might be nervewracking, there really is no better way to determine if a guy is in a relationship than by asking...

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Q: Can an uncircumcised man orgasm during sex with a condom?

A: Yes. Of course. Don't let him tell you otherwise. "I can't feel anything with a condom" is the oldest dirtbag trick in t...

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Q: People always tell me to take a chance on love, life and relationships. I try. But I my efforts almost ALWAYS backfire and I end up being burned. As a beautiful, young, African American college girl, are my options slim to none right now, or will my burn streak end?

A: The law of averages alone tells you that it will pay off at some point. Here's the thing about taking chances - there's ...

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Q: Of all the dinosaurs, which one do you most resemble in traits...and/or which dinosaur traits would you most like to have?

A: Thanks for the great question. It's one I have thought alot about. As a kid, my favorite dinosaur was, of course, the Ty...

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Q: My freinds at work are trying to set me up on a blind date,the only problems are he lives in a differant town and neither of us drive. Is it worth pursueing, or should I tell my friends "thanks, but no thanks"??

A: Worth pursuing and pursuable are two different monsters. Sure it's probably worth pursuing. The chance to meet a new per...

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Q: Is it weird to have pet names in the form of Pokemon? I have an odd habit of doing this to almost every guy I want to get romantic with. First, it was Psyduck. Then it was Growlithe. Now I'm all over Mightyena. Would you get turned off by immaturity or be intrigued by slight creativity?

A: Uh, if the guy's really into Pokemon, he might be cool with it. (You aren't doing this in public, right?) Otherwise, he ...

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