It's strange. You ask a guy who is supposed to give you blunt, truthful and direct answers to your questions and then become outraged by the response because it's too much of the above. Kinda like getting mad at a Christian for liking Jesus.
At any rate, if Mystery Man weren't happily married he would definitely give you a run for your money, provided "with a little more to love" doesn't mean you are actually the size of a tank, which you may very well be. Nothing wrong with a little jiggle. Jiggle makes the world go round. And the fact that you are a black girl is about as irrelevant as a tanning salon in Tahiti.
Well thank you for you're honest answer.....and im not as big as a tank lol
Love it!
uhm....I can see how people don't like you're advice...What did you come up with question yourself?...
lol ...sometimes I wonder
clearly not if you took the time to see the comments, mainly the first.
Since your so blunt i was hoping you could give me some advice too.
So there was this guy that liked me last year. He told a few of my friends that he thought I was really good-looking and beautiful etc. He also mentioned that he thought i was very quiet even though he himself hardly ever spoke when i was around. They of course told me all of this and as the year went on he still liked me. Being shy and awfully inexperienced with males and any form of male attention I waited around for him to make a move yet he never did! Infact I hardly even saw him look my way. It didnt seem much to me like he liked me so I was in no rush to make myself look like a fool given false information or last week's news.
I really liked this guy but was too shy to say anything and admit to my friends I liked him so the year went by and not a single move was made on either of our parts. :( Now this year I havent seen him as much and he is apperently over me. Ive heard that he likes other girls and when people ask him about me he gets upset about it. They say its because of how much he liked me and now im wondering whether or not he might still like me or if I'd be better off moving on with this as a learning experience to make the moves with such shy guys.
I just want to know what other people may think and if you do for some reason think he still likes me, how can i make him mine? I definately dont want to dwell on this but i cant help but wonder that if he liked me so much, maybe he would still have some of those feelings when he sees me.
P.S. every time Ive seen him, I made sure to make eye contact and look friendly
Cindy, you are obviously a youngin! lol.... If you want to see what is up with him you have to talk to him. You don't have to run up to him and say HEY IVE LIKED YOU FOR THE LAST YEAR!! hah jus go up to him and ask him if he wants to do something over the weekend. As him something specific so its a yes or no answer not one of those... well what do you wanna do/ I dunno what do you wanna do things lol .... If he says no then he said no....oh well life goes on. If he says yes then well you just gave yourself the chance to actually hang out! something you have obviously been waiting a year for. Guys fear rejection just as much as the ladies do. So be the brave one and approach him. Otherwise it seems like you are always going to wonder what could have been. :) good luck!
Totally agreeing with this! Make sure to make it casual, just you and him hanging out. Don't even consider this a first date, think of yourselves strictly "friendly". Then once you're doing whatever you decide to do you'll be able to tell if he actually "likes you" likes you.
Oh yeah, talk to him. Men aren't mind readers ;) I've always been successful with "hi, you're cute, let's chill"
Well, if we're being blunt - it's not the few people asking the questions that have a problem with the answers: it's great that they get a short easy reply. It's the people choosing to read it, and compared to some of the funny, longer, wittier, cleverer responses. There's just not that much point in reading your answers, unless you were the one who posted the question. There's always better stuff in the comments than the answer.
If we're being blunt today...