Never confuse strategy with lack of interest. Life is basically a bunch of people pretending they don't want to make out with each other until they're sure everyone else wants to make out just as badly as they do.

If you heard through the grapevine this guy is into, chances are it's accurate. Chances are he PLANTED the information via a mole, double agent, or "misdirected tweet." And while you're not wrong that a group cookout is a friend activity, you're also not wrong about being too analytical.

A guy will often pick a friend activity to test the water with a potential date. It doesn't mean he's not interested; on the contrary, it means he's interested enough to be nervous and guard his feelings. That's like three steps away from impregnating you, so lookin' good so far.

If you want things to progress in a romantic direction, I'd suggest sending some clear signals at the cookout that you approve and would like to share some alone time. He'll almost certainly get the hint, and soon you'll be having naked cookouts of your very own.

You said it was a naked cookout, right? Am I misremembering the question? Well, not worth scrolling up now.

Conversely, if you're wary of the work connection or just not into this guy, be sure not to do anything that could lead him on. Odds are he's painstakingly analyzing your every move, and the slightest misstep could nab you a stalker or suicide case.

So remember, just relax and have fun!