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A guy who tells me every day he loves me adores me wants to take care of me and wants to marry me do you think he is committed to me?

No doesn't sound like he's committed enough. You should have him cut off his left nut and bury it under a tree. If that's not enough proof for you, have him cut off the other one as well. That should do it for you.

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Just make sure he's not saying that to other women too. My most recent ex-boyfriend said all those things to me, then turned around and picked up women at bars. He managed to juggle a couple of us for a while, saying all the right things: I love you, I've never felt this way about anyone, I want to take care of you...it seemed too good to be true, and it was.

Cary McNeal

Beautiful. I love a smart ass.

AngelBabyGirl

cutting off his testies is a horrible idea!!.....Cutting her up in little small ungreatful pieces,..NOW THATS SOMETHING I CAN AGREE WITH!!

GrapeJellyGirl

your answer made me laugh...really hard and dang it I snorted.

Okay to me though the poster has an issue she needs to look at...something is making you feel like he is disingenuous or you yourself are not comfortable accepting his love and feelings for you..take a closer look and be honest with yourself.

Just try really hard not to ruin a good thing if you do find that you are being insecure.

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Talk is cheap. Pay a lot of attention to what he does and how he acts. He might be covering for bad behavior with bullsh!t.

Or there's always the testicle thing....

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LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I agree with GrapeJellyGirl (great screen name btw). It sounds like something is bothering you, despite his devotion. Work on figuring out if this is a little voice of intuition telling you something or if it is your own fears or issues flaring up.

And Biggirl is absolutely right: talk is cheap. Pay attention to his actions, to behavior. Seek counsel from your closest friends (or family members) if you feel comfortable doing that. They may help you see things in a whole different light; since they love you and know you well, they may even be able to help you sort out what is really bothering you.

And whatever happens, listen to that inner voice and seek the outcome that will let you be your healthiest, happiest, and true self. And I know that sounds kind of New Age-y (sorry), but it really works!

Best of luck,
Livia

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