Easy! Tell him that you will do it but that it has to be with his sister. That should shut him up.
Seriously though, your husband is playing with fire: Unless both parties are eager and very comfortable about having a menage a trois terrible things can happen. Jealousy being the number one culprit. Ground rules need to be laid out and followed to a tee or divorce or much worse can ensue.
Good luck!
How about this, my dear......Let him know that when you have picked out the MAN you'd like to include in your threesome you'll let him know. I'd venture to bet that will shut him up. Men and their "threesomes" - they really need to get a grip and grow up.
i always have to laugh when i hear these kind of questions. im a 25 year old woman, and I am always the one in relationships that is pushing for the threesome! whenever i first get with the guy, he acts like he is sooo excited to do it, and then whenever the opportunity comes around, he gets completely pissed, pouts the whole way back, or just disappears outside or something! you should just call his bluff and tell him that your down for it and youll see, he will back down. (and if by some chance he actually goes through with it, which i highly doubt, let me know how you got him to do it)! lol :)
Tell him that you never realized that he was so open minded with his sexuality that he would be comfortable having another man in the bedroom. Then suggest a man you know that you have considered having sex with or fantasized about before. When he protests that he does not want a man, then say something like 'why, wouldn't it turn you on to see another man having sex with me right in front of you?' When he says no, then say hmmm I guess you know exactly how I feel now. It will force him to see the situation from your perspective and realize exactly WHY you do not want another woman there. It is disrespectful to you to insist upon doing something sexual that makes you feel uncomfortable and basically he needs to be taught a lesson. Good luck.
the mystery man has spoken
I read this and had to comment... What I wonder is how you married a man, that has a side to him that you obviously do not approve of, nor do you want any part of? This threesome stuff is just RIDICULOUS to me... If he keeps bugging you about it, seeing that you're obviously upset by it, SO UPSET BY IT that you have to come online and ask for advice about it, tell him to go screw that girl, and you'll see him in court.
My husband keeps bugging me also. I have brought another couple, he said ok at first. Then slowly but surely each conversation the other male is left out. So I keep putting my foot down but he says he won't feel fullfilled until its done. Not to mention we have done it before with a female so he already has had the threesome. He wants to visit sex partys just so I can be more comfortable around females. Someone please help me I'm confussed