By all means, end it. End it now. No? That’s what I thought. Stop being so neurotic, insecure, and impatient.
I do not think that two years is an unreasonable length of time for a man or a woman to still waffle on whether or not they want to make the ultimate commitment with someone. What’s your hurry?
Maybe if five years have gone by, and he’s still wishy-washy…but he just moved in with you six months ago. Ack! You just moved in with him, and you’re fretting about the next big step, which is many, many steps away. Leaps and bounds, even.
He was capable of making a committed decision about moving in with you, you know. I’ll bet he’s dealing with reality, which is that he just started living with his girlfriend, and you’re worrying about a future that hasn’t happened yet. Are you unhappy? Does he clip his fingernails into beer cans? Eat Cheez Whiz from the jar with his fingers? Chill, woman.
If you love this dude, you’ll hang out a little while longer. Do it for him, and do it for you.