Why stop at three? Call him every day, every hour on the hour, until he capitulates and agrees to go out with you just to make you stop calling, or gets a restraining order against you.
Actually, never mind, that's probably not a good idea.
Call him once. Anything more will make you look desperate and possibly psychotic. One call is enough to let him know you are interested. If he calls back, great. If not, move on. After you boil his bunny, that is.
Good luck.
mmmmmmm...boiled rabbit.
Yeah, once is enough. If he's interested, he'll get back with you.
No, no, persistence is vital. Lots of phone calls. Send flowers. Drive by his place. Send pictures of yourself. Lots of texting. Send pictures of yourself standing outside his house and place of work. Don't give up, you can do this!
Skywriting is always an attention-getter, too. Or a bullhorn.
Skywriting! Damn! Wish I'd have thought of that. I initially had a singing telegram as an option, but then I started thinking about Candygrams and Land Sharks and was way too distracted by it all.
As is Peter Gabriel on a boom box under the window. That's always a winner.
it could be really annoying if the guy doesn't call back...i mean, that could just leave a girl wondering...did he forget? maybe he didn't get the call? Maybe he's waiting for a bit? I mean... all kinda of possibilities. Even tho 3 times with voicemail is a bit much, u can't blame the girl for having hope...Everyone at least deserves a courtesy let-down or, for the passive aggressive of us, a transparent excuse.
Those are all just excuses to make up for the guy not calling back. If he didn't ask her on another date AND didn't respond to her call, it's time to move on. He is clearly not interested. The extra two calls will do nothing to change that. Clearly, there are better men out there for this lady who will do the courtesy of calling her back!
"it could be really annoying if the guy doesn't call back...i mean, that could just leave a girl wondering...did he forget?"
Ya it could be annoying if your sitting on your ass waiting for him to call. If he forgets about you obviously you didn't leave a lasting impression and he's not interested. Move on.
"Everyone at least deserves a courtesy let-down"
Why? What's the point? Do you really need to hear from him "I don't like you." After 1 or 2 dates if a guy doesn't call me back that's his loss....
ugh.....phone games...
Samsmama - love it! Of course, you could always go undercover and just start up a light stalking schedule. Make him fall in love with you without him even knowing you're there!
I keed, I keed....
Mmmm, that's good lapin.
A friend of mine share her story with me and I'm writing this to asking all guys for your opionion and advise please!!!
My friend been dating this new guy she met and she said that she's interested in him. Is been about 2months now that they have been going out.
She likes him and she did slept with him on a first date, after that she feel guilty and told him that feel bad about it. He told her that why? he said he glad we did it.
So, after that she's been seeing him maybe 2 times a months. She been dating him and he ask her to hang out at his place, before that they just go have some dinner and went to his place to watch movies and she's been sleepover as usual for the 2 months straight. So.....my question to you is that she doesn't know what to do now. He never take her to go see his friend. He never ask her to go hang out with his friends. When she brought up the question like how come you never talk to me about planning going for a nice dinner and dress up to go for night life?....He said he tired and just want to cuddle and sleep.
The week that he is not with her he hang out with his friends, like going to clubs and partying or go to Vegas with his friends and friends girl that they met up there.
She told me all these....so....can you plese help me out so I can tell my friend what to do next? should she still date this guy or move on and forget about him.
Is he into my friend just for sex? or what?
She knows that this guy have a face book with over one thousands people. Mostly girls. and the pics that post on his facebook is all girls hugging him or he is licky their toes and so many different girls all over him. Is this guy a player?
What kind of question do my friend can ask this guy that so he can answer her honestly what she think of her? She just want to know if he is dating her for just sex or future to be girl friend? on his facebook he put he is single, not in the relationship with her. Is this wrong?
How does she know when she will be his girlfriend? do a guy really ask a girl if he wants her to be his girlfriend? how does she know if he is committed? is she ready to ask him that questions?
Please please help with this.....I would really appreciate any advise and from all guys out there.
Regards,
for my best friend concern
Licking their toes? That's kind of...gross. Or maybe that's just me.
I say your friend should pack up and run. None of us can know what's going on in this guy's head, but it doesn't sound like he's all that interested in a relationship. Especially if these pictures of girls all over him have been since their initial dates. Two months isn't THAT long, but long enough for some level of commitment to be established. If he wanted a relationship, he would probably have stopped or at least cut back on the partying with other girls. At least he should take her along most of the time.
The fact that he hasn't introduced her to his friends and seems to be avoiding the possibility also speaks volumes. Most guys want to show their new ladies off to their friends. :/
Your friend really just needs to sit the guy down and ask him where they stand. It'll suck if she gets the answer she isn't hoping for, but better than being strung along not knowing what she is to this guy. And if she doesn't like him treating her like the sometimes-lover-sometimes-booty-call, she needs to stop letting him. If she tries to cut it off, he might protest, but if your friend wants commitment and he doesn't want to give it to her, she needs to just throw in the towel and find an even better guy. :)