I think you're experiencing some pretty normal feelings. I also think that both men and women feel that way. It's natural. When we attach ourselves to somebody we always wonder what part of that person somebody else is getting.
We ask questions of comparison. We hope they'll tell us everything about all of their conversations to assuage our desire to be number one above any and everybody else. And chances are that we are. But we can't help it. It's human ego, which is both a gift and a curse.
So I wouldn't sweat it. It's normal. It only becomes a problem when you are compelled to act on it. THAT, my dear, is when you have a problem.
And look, we all have friends who have been around since before our significant others who will know things or be apart of things that we can never fully grasp. The key is to make sure that you're creating your own memories and inside jokes. So that there's no need to worry about who's getting more or less, you'll just be getting something...different.
If youre like this, dont date guys with lots of female friends. I dont have many male friends, actually very few and I would prefer a guy with only a few female friends. There is always that sexual tension, no matter how friendly a guy or girl is to one another. I dont get too close to a guy friend and I also try to set up boundaries sometimes.
NO, Im not sexist or have trust issues. I just know that feelings can develop if you get too close while youre with another person. It is all about being emotionally mature, but affairs start out by allowing ourselves to get 'really' close to a friend. Just know in your heart who your man is and everything will flow easily.
But if he only has a few friends, wouldn't he be much closer to them than many? Perhaps you should date guys who only have male friends. . .
Very few people (in the west at least) have absolutely no friends of the opposite gender. Even if they keep them at a distance. This is a very different problem if the girl is his life long bff vs. one of his poker buddies while the op hates poker. It could be a huge part of his life or little one, but she feels left out. I think this is one of those tough it out scenarios, where they just have to act like a grown up about it.
I'm just going to say something my boyfriend once told me that kind of annoyed me but was true. If he wanted to be with someone else he would. He's with you, he doesn't have a gun to his head.
Panama is right, jelousy becomes an issue when you decide to act on it or when you become too insecure.
I totally understand you but remember self confidence is paramount.
Thank our primal competitiveness and territorial tendencies. You aren't bad, not at all, you're only human, a living being with the urges to compete and claim, like the rest of us. Your twinges are normal, you'll get them even when there is no basis for them.
Knowing that is the best tool to keep yourself from acting out on them. You feel the twinge, remember it's your instincts, slap it down!
Only, and only if, your BF actually does anything to justify your concerns, should you act on it. And then, act by talking and confronting, not snooping on him.
Panama and Mr. X nailed it. You are human with normal human insecurities and territorial instincts, so yes, you are going to feel a twinge of this on occasion. However, you recognize it as irrational and can put a lid on it. Don't beat yourself up for feeling it. If you can't put a lid on it even though you know it's irrational, you might benefit from a little counseling. If you can't put a lid on it because your gut's telling you that there's something hinky going on with one or more of these friends, it's time to have a chat with your boyfriend.
Emotionally have been disturbed for a while and i came to a conclusion that i was not meant to love and possible die of loneliness.....i tried all i could to get my ex
back but all to no avail
Alot of people here have been writing good things here on TOPIX about professor Lucy
initially i never belived and of the posts and testimonials cos have once fallen victim to a fake spellcaster but the real mind in me gave it a trial
i contacted him and he said some prayers for me and that was the begining of the solutions to my problems
in a nut shell,my ex who happened to be the mother of my child came back to me after 7 days of the prayers
professor Lucy is simply the most powerful spell caster one can ever trust
you can also contact him if you are having the same type of predicament,contact him via :spirituallove@hotmail.com
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