There is a reason everyone commenting on this feels the same way lol. Its silly. It is healthy to have different interests from your significant other and do things separately and often. He should be able to go hangout with his guy friends, and you should be spending time with your girlfriends. Its easy to get wrapped up in each other and quit paying attention to your friends but its important to do so. This situation is a perfect example of that. You say that usually you both have similar taste in movies but once in a while he wants to see one, or you want to see one that the other doesn't want to see. In these cases you should be making it a girls night and going to see your movie without him and vice versa. When he wants to go see some amazingly action packed guy movie you don't wanna see, he should go see it with his guy friends. You know youd have more fun going to see twilight with your girls anyways, they wouldn't be making fun of the movie every 5 minutes lol.

Also the other point a previous commenter made was good as well. You need to pick your battles. When something comes up like a work christmas party or a family get together that your boyfriend probably would rather avoid but you want him there, he will know it means a lot to you and its not just another time your nagging him to tag along with you over something silly. He will go with you willingly and support you. If your always trying to get him to do things with you he would rather not, he will be more irritable when you ask him to join you on something thats actually important.

Let him be his own person with his own interests, you should do the same. The best relationships I have seen work because its two people choosing to spend time together and really enjoying that time because they have their own lives and aren't with each other every second. Support him and encourage him to have time to himself with his friends, no one wants to be nagged or smothered. You want him to think of you as an amazing person who adds that love and fun to his life, who is a support to his life, not someone who requires him to stop his life for you, who is a drain on him, who needs to be babysat, who is always asking him to change his plans, or interests to suit you. You want to be a confident independent woman, that's what attracts men. What attracts women to a man is a confident independent man. Why would you want to change that. be one half of a whole, not 2/3rds.