Uh no, not an exaggeration at all. It's unseemly, like dandruff and goatees. In fact, I'm pretty proud of the guy race in general for not being more bugged out and stupefied by this period-thing. What is NOT weird about menstruating? I don't need to go through the biological specifics, we all took health class in Middle School, but just the mere idea that every month a tiny coyote slips into your vagina while you sleep and breaks a blood blister is seriously bizarre, no?
And please don't give me the argument that because it's 100% natural and serves as the basis for our species' existence, it's also not a super weird thing. When asked on an upcoming episode of Oprah, god himself admits periods are one of his Top Ten Weirdest Inventions. But we as a race have moved beyond nature. That's why in most civilized parts of the world menstruating women are shunned and temporarily quarantined until they're done "showing off." And, when they're finished menstruating they can join us back in the court of civility. We'll be ejaculating gooey semen and eating our own snot.
I freaking hate getting mine - for every single reason that every guy thinks it's gross and disgusting. It IS gross and disgusting, only at least you bloke people don't have to suffer the injustice and ickness of having to actually have it happen to you. Balls to it being something natural and beautiful. It's a pain and an inconvenience.
I love mine, i dont know there is something comforting about getting your period. It makes me feel womanly. The pain, the hormones, the emotions - it reminds me how strong my body can be. I like being a woman. I like the fact that I can grow a mini human inside my body. It's pretty freakin awesome.
I think its okay for men to be curious about periods, but i'd be freaked out if my boyfriend was weirded out by my period.
Really? I mean REALLY?!? There's nothing comforting about it, unless you're afraid you're pregnant, and then it's a really irritating relief. Good for you for being all zen about it, I give you major props for it, but personally while I understand it's natural necessary, I'm pretty grossed out by the fact that I can grow a parasite in my body for nine months and expel it in a horribly painful way. My body is not strong when I'm on my period, it's weak, lethargic, and pained.....if it didn't screw with your hormones so much, I'd get a hysterectomy today.
This.
A friend of mine told me that he can't trust a person that bleeds for 3 days and doesn't die. From that and his reaction to when a girl threw a tampon at him (he freaked) gave me a good idea how men view a woman's period.
I think the movie "No Strings Attached" had it right when all the girls were menstruating and one of them said it's like having a crime scene in her pants. They are awful!
Your friend stole that line from South Park.
hardly. that line is more than 30 years old. just generally not said in polite company, or within earshot of women.
Preach!!!! I can't stand mine either, such an inconvenience. I love being a woman, but men definitely have some perks.
Ok they're gross. They're messy, weird, and inconvenient.
But you know what? Get over it. It's immature to treat periods like the blood of that little thing from Alien. It's red goo. It's gross but it won't hurt you. It's not even unsanitary. I lose a lot of respect for guys who get all wimpy and squirmy about some goo that is a different color than normal coming out of a place they happily stick their dick in at all other occasions. Do I expect sex? Of course not, but don't treat your girl like she smells like a hobo. It sucks to bleed from your crotch, but it sucks even more to not be treated with as much affection a few days a month for something out of your control.
Actually, this goes for women too. Stop treating it like a drug habit or something. Don't apologize. Just take care of yourself, shower regularly, and don't take any crap.
What she said.
Great comment.
Granted I don't parade around screaming that I have my period during "that" week, I do know that it is natural and not so bad. Sure it's painful, and a hassle (I can't even count the endless panties ruined by the surprise period attacks) but it's life. Women are strong enough to endure the emotional and physical fluxes; and have the power to give life. If it were in a man's hands, we'd be screwed... and only metaphorically sadly.
Recently, my period came really early and unfortunately my boyfriend was the one who noticed first as we had started to get frisky. Even though a bit of blood got on his sheet and his hand he didn't freak out, just calmly asked if i was expecting it. I was a bit embarrassed and he was nice enough to not bring it up again. So there are some guys who won't freak out about it and will be understanding.
I've had a guy friend who would freak out just at the mention of it, but then others, as well as my dad, who are completely fine with talking about it.
As for how I feel about it, I bitch and whine about it every month. The cramps, the sneak attack periods that stain your underwear and jeans (some pretty embarrassing stories there). And no, I don't feel comforted or womanly in the slightest. If you do, you're probably one of those women that always get light periods without any cramps (like a friend of mine).
Not all guys are so grossed out by it. My boo was wanting to sleep naked and suggested we do so together, though, being on my period I figured it would end badly. I told him this, and he said he didn't mind. Out of consideration for him (and his sheets) I didn't, though the sentiment is still nice.
my period grosses me out more then it does my fiance. A couple weeks ago we were in bed and he started to get frisky which i thought was odd because earlier that day HE bought me tampons and some hershey kisses on his way home but i kindly reminded him i was bleeded from my vag and he still didnt care he wanted some booty. he said he loved me and he didnt care we could just take a shower together afterwards so not allll guys are skiddish when it comes to their gal bein on the rag.
My boyfriend doesn't care at all. I think I care more than he does. We have sex just the same as when I'm not on my period.
Getting my period is great. That way I make sure my birth control pills actually work. My boyfriend is grossed out by it, but it only lasts a couple of days.
most of the time i'm not grossed out, though there are moments. it's just a serious inconvenience. it can be uncomfortable, and pretty painful for me (i have prescription pain meds for the cramps, they get that bad), and it cuts down on sex time ;)
but on the other hand, what nameji said. at least i know that the pill is working LOL.
I hate it when some chicks use it as an excuse to act b*tchy. Grow a backbone, woman! Other people can handle bleeding 3-7 days /month without throwing a hissy fit over everything, you can do it too. Mine are painful and unfunny, but I don't forget my upbringing just because my hormones are prancing around like little ponies on a field. It's not gross - yeah, it comes out of your body like booger and urine, but it's very different. Shower yourself. Use a mooncup, it helps with the smell. Stop being an adultsized baby.
I agree with the comments about menstrual isn't something to be shun. I don't care what you say, it's part of nature, it's something that keep every living things keep on living through generations. Though, it should be something private. A guy who would freak out wouldn't be on my fondest list, but I understand that male and female are different. Hopefully men would, at least, keep their reactions to themselves and comfort the female, as anybody would for a person in pain. At least I hope you would stop and offer comfort to a person in pain....
As for the hormones, Meena is right. Manners shouldn't be forgotten in any circumstances, it's one of the human decencies. While I understand that prancing ponies can be annoying when it's in the bloodstream, at least remember the things that your own Mother taught you. Usually the ones that receives your hissing/frowning/bitching are the ones that are close to you, so think about their feelings when you unleash yours on them. Don't take it for granted that they understand, they probably will if you explained it to them, but the hurtful things you say/do is still hurtful. Explains to them that you're not feeling well, then try to make normal conversation, if you feel that you can't be nice to people, take a walk around the park to calm yourself down or go to a private area and pop a comedy tape or listen to music. By doing that you show that you can be responsible for yourself, and the people around you would respect you for your ability to handle "tough situations".
Haha. I bursted out laughing when I read that. Funny thing is I have actually broke up with a guy over flipping out aboutmy period once. I was in 11th grade and my boyfriend at the time wanting to go to Walmart (I hate Walmart becuase that is where all my bad experiences occur) while walking in the movie aisle my belly began to cramp. I grabbed his hand and kissed it and told him I was going to go to the medicine section. He stared at me for a second and asked why. I told him that my belly hurt. So I go to the meds department grab some tylenol and return. He asked if I was on my period, I nodded feeling a tad awkward. Suddenly he is horrified. "Oh my gosh! You have to call your parents to take you home?" " Why would I do that you picked me up? I feel fine now. Can't you take me?" "No way man! You'll bleed in my car!" I kicked his shin and stormed off. I called my Dad, who was pissed, and I went home. Can you believe after graduation that jerk came to my work place and asked me out again? lol. I mean Jebus! It's not like I escaped from area 51 or something! lmao.
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"That time of the month" is different for everyone. For some, it's extremely painful and irritating. For others, it's hardly noticeable. However, no matter how it feels for you, some guys are just uneasy about it. That's normal, and you can't really blame them for it. I've known girls who are grossed out by semen and masturbating, which is also natural. My girlfriend only ever mentions her period when it's bothering her, which I'm okay with. She's in pain; she can't help it. If I felt awful I would want my guy to be understanding about it. I usually take care of her at times like these, meaning I let her take it easy and I do everything for her until she feels better. I usually lay her on the couch and get her some painkillers and a glass of juice. Then I cuddle with her and maybe watch a movie. Most girls don't want to talk about it just as much as guys. For me, it's not gross, it's a part of life and I love her so I deal with it. Every girl you're with is going to have a period. It's the reason you're even on the planet. Being uncomfortable to talk about it is normal, but keeping distance from her is wrong. Girls are sensitive for the duration of their periods, and if you're sweet to her, she'll be sweet back. She won't be a bitch if you don't piss her off. People should just keep in mind that it's always going to happen, and there's no way to change that. If you really care about her, it won't get in the way of your relationship. Guys just need to have a little consideration. They go through a lot, whereas we have no struggle with our genitals. If I could, I would gladly take her pain. Women are women. Deal with it, or change your sexual orientation.
"That time of the month" is different for everyone. For some, it's extremely painful and irritating. For others, it's hardly noticeable. However, no matter how it feels for you, some guys are just uneasy about it. That's normal, and you can't really blame them for it. I've known girls who are grossed out by semen and masturbating, which is also natural. My girlfriend only ever mentions her period when it's bothering her, which I'm okay with. She's in pain; she can't help it. If I felt awful I would want my guy to be understanding about it. I usually take care of her at times like these, meaning I let her take it easy and I do everything for her until she feels better. I usually lay her on the couch and get her some painkillers and a glass of juice. Then I cuddle with her and maybe watch a movie. Most girls don't want to talk about it just as much as guys. For me, it's not gross, it's a part of life and I love her so I deal with it. Every girl you're with is going to have a period. It's the reason you're even on the planet. Being uncomfortable to talk about it is normal, but keeping distance from her is wrong. Girls are sensitive for the duration of their periods, and if you're sweet to her, she'll be sweet back. She won't be a bitch if you don't piss her off. People should just keep in mind that it's always going to happen, and there's no way to change that. If you really care about her, it won't get in the way of your relationship. Guys just need to have a little consideration. They go through a lot, whereas we have no struggle with our genitals. If I could, I would gladly take her pain. Women are women. Deal with it, or change your sexual orientation.
As a guy, I think it's pretty horrible that every girl will need to suffer, someone quite a lot even, and you can't make any difference - besides being kind/loving as always, to one single individual you're maybe in a relationship with.
It's really always bothered me, right since our age group started having it (~a decade ago.) The way periods start occuring so early, intruding right into girls' lives (even way before the teens, sometimes) and crushing that feeling of "childhood vibe" there may have been between friends. This actually happened to one of my own friendships. It makes me extremely sad that you cannot help in any way, as all the "downsides of reproduction" fall 100% on the girl (periods first, then later virtually every worry about e.g. contraception), things that are obviously tabooed so they can never be discussed.
The upsetting and early onset of girls' puberty, along with the transformation and, more prominently, suffering it can shove into their lives, has always made me feel very bad for girls.
As a guy, I think it's pretty horrible that every girl will need to suffer, someone quite a lot even, and you can't make any difference - besides being kind/loving as always, to one single individual you're maybe in a relationship with.
It's really always bothered me, right since our age group started having it (~a decade ago.) The way periods start occuring so early, intruding right into girls' lives (even way before the teens, sometimes) and crushing that feeling of "childhood vibe" there may have been between friends. This actually happened to one of my own friendships. It makes me extremely sad that you cannot help in any way, as all the "downsides of reproduction" fall 100% on the girl (periods first, then later virtually every worry about e.g. contraception), things that are obviously tabooed so they can never be discussed.
The upsetting and early onset of girls' puberty, along with the transformation and, more prominently, suffering it can shove into their lives, has always made me feel very bad for girls.
I really want to know if some, all or most men are grossed out by having sex when a girl is having her period, So come on guys, i need feedback
Hell NO, I love when my wife is on her period. I LOVE THE SMELL &TASTE OF HET ON HER PERIOD. WE BOTH LOVE IT WHEN I GO DOWN ON HER BEFORE & AFTER WE HAVE SEX WHEN SHE ON HER PERIOD.
Hell NO, I love when my wife is on her period. I LOVE THE SMELL &TASTE OF HET ON HER PERIOD. WE BOTH LOVE IT WHEN I GO DOWN ON HER BEFORE & AFTER WE HAVE SEX WHEN SHE ON HER PERIOD.
I totally expect sex when I'm on my period and if he wants it any other time he needs to deal with it. It's part of me and my body and I don't expect someone I'm in a relationship with to find it disgusting. If it's going to make a mess I might mention it - but otherwise I wouldn't bother - not an issue to me.