Believe it or not (it's pretty believable if you have any sense of what makes a good blog post), at one of the absolute lowest points in our relationship. We were going through a very dark time, lying to one another, crying, shouting, divvying up the hummel figurines, the whole bit.
But when I realized that even then, MOST of the time, I was happier imagining her in my life than anyone else, that all we needed to do was buckle down and sort our crap out and everything was going to be fine. And we did, and it was. Tah-dah.
A good relationship is like anything long-lasting; it's stable. It's sturdy, and it got that way by weathering hardship. Without that, you've never been tested, and you can never fully trust that when shit really DOES go down, your partner won't freak out, sleep with your sister, kill her, and bury the body in the yard.
Darn, my wife will be really upset that I gave away the specifics of our relationship like that. If only there were a way to take back or alter this post. Alack.
this is difficult for me because im at a very low point in my relationship right now and we are trying to work through it though i may be leading towards it more breaking us than making us... because in my relationship i met him at a very hard time in his life too i believe... hes grown to love me very much now and even though we have problems right now, in the beginning we never had that "im so in love nothing else matters " romance phase.. so theres nothing for me to look forward to because its always been hard. he says he loves & needs me in his life and he will not let anything get in the way of us fighting anymore etc etc. but because of our past, i more feel just so tired because ive always been there for him i dont know if id like to try anymore..could this make us though?
opinions???
1 time
2 times
3 times
your out!
4th time done forever