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At what point do couples choose to go from dating to being bf/gf?

There are three different ways the transition from "dating" to "relationship" goes down:

1. You're at a party with the guy and someone asks "is this your boyfriend?" You then look at each other awkwardly and have to decide at that moment if you're in a relationship.

2. One of you decides without telling the other one and then changes his or her Facebook status, much to the shock and surprise of all.

3. You both sit down to dinner and one of you asks the other if you'd like to make it official.

That third option is the old school way of doing things, but it's the way that I recommend. The best way to figure out if the guy you're dating is really your boyfriend is to talk about it. Ambiguity is the enemy of happiness, and conversation is the best way to get rid of ambiguity.

So talk it out. It'll probably be a very happy and exciting conversation.

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It's very important to talk about it. I told a friend that I was seeing a friend of hers. I told her because I wasn't really sure if she wanted to date him or not. She said she didn't because he was too young for her, but she seemed to like him. I told him I was going to talk to her and let her know. He didn't want me too but I insisted because I didn't want to upset her if she found out. Well she asked him to many questions which made him mad at me and he said we are just hanging out, not seeing each other. Which of course she pointed that out to me and I was pissed. I learned my lesson to just keep my mouth shut and not tell her anything. If someone was going with someone I was not interested in. I would not ask any questions. I would just congratulate them and leave it at that.

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After dating my bf a couple of months, I was talking to someone on the phone, and said 'yes I'll get my(awkward pause)...guy to look at the car to come over' and my 'guy' was right there. Apparently he stewed over it for days then he rather awkwardly asked me what we were, is he just some guy? I said, of course not, I think of you as my bf but we hadn't talked about it so was very specifically NOT calling you that as I didn't want to scare you of, haha. Well he then tells me he had been calling me his partner all along hahaha. And then hopefully we live happily ever after but that bit is still coming :D

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