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Bf. Aspiring rapper. He's awful. Cn't rspnd honestly when he plays wrk for me, so I fnd smthng vgly pos to say abt the track. Dn't like blwing smoke, bt he's sensitive. Dn't wnt to hurt him. He's starting to put hmslf out thr. I wnt to spprt him in his dream but I'm scrd (ok, certain) he'll embrrss hmslf. Advise pls.

First, I'm amazed at how much information you managed to provide without using key vowels in certain words. Kudos. That's impressive.

Here's the problem, if he's awful, you not being honest isn't making him get any better. In fact, its inspiring him to keep making the same awful music. And what happens when he puts his music out there and other people tell him that he sucks or worse, don't pay him any attention whatsoever?

(There's a third option here where a terrible rapper ALSO manages to become an overnight success, so there's a good chance that as long as he's got a good enough gimmick, he might become the next Trinidad James...I can see your conundrum.)

You seem to be certain that he's going to look like an idiot so perhaps its in your best interest to start being more honest with him. It's in his best interest as well. Nobody wins if you keep lying to him.

Or the alternate scenario is that you help him as much as you can so that somebody else can tell him he sucks and then you can just lick his wounds as he one day decides to do something else since he's not good at being a rapper.

In fact, I'm fairly certain that's what most Aspiring Rapper Wives do.

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I agree with the last idea. Encourage him the best you can. Let someone (a&r) tell him he sucks and go from there. :),

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Yeah, I also agree with the alternate scenario. If you love him, support him as much as you can without lying to him or leading him on. Then let someone else tell him he sucks.. If you are concerned about helping him, maybe give him your honest opinions on how he could improve his music or his skills.

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Haha "Aspiring Rapper Wives" should be a reality TV show!

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Ps Rapper wives is a reality TV show dude, secondly WT f kind of language is this person speaking?

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