I have been with an uncircumcized guy, and he never had any problems having an orgasm.

never had an uncircumcised guy try the line on me. in fact, nobody i've been with has ever protested to using a condom.

i prefer uncircumcised men, anyway.
they're not sexually mutilated.

I'm currently having lots of protected sex with a nice uncircumsized guy and he's never tried this on me.

Nice is the key difference, i think, between the two circumstances.

My boyfriend is uncircumcised, and likes the way the condom grips his foreskin so it feels more like unprotected sex (it kind of allows him to have sex with his foreskin rubbing back and forth, as opposed to just a latex coating). Says its still not nearly the same, but it still feels great.

So....he is a douche using a woman's unfamiliarity with circumcisions to try to use unprotected sex. What a great guy.

Maybe it's not obvious to those who have never been with an uncircumsized man but when they are in an erection, the foreskin "disappears" because it is streched. The tip of the penis is fully out in the open. So I would guess sex is the same, circumsized or not.

I would see something like this as a major red flag. Trying to get you to engage in unprotected sex when you are not on board is really crude. If he doesn't have a ton of other, more desirable qualities, I think moving on might be best.

What a creep!

I wrote the question. He isn't forcing me to do anything, just so far it hasn't worked for him! We'll keep trying--I think it's just nerves based on these comments.

I am uncircumsized and I had issues with not coming quickly or at all at first when I was younger: but it was a simple problem with an easy solution. The foreskin didn't go back naturally during sex with the condom on. If he has a tight foreskin get him to retract it before he puts the condom on or like me he will go on for 20, 30, 40 minutes-- basically till its numb-- to no avail.
Or lose the condom that works too.

In my experience, uncircumcised men are more sensitive than circumcised men on the tip of their penis. So what he is saying to you really makes no sense. He probably just does not like condoms or his ex's did not make him use condoms so he has a difficult time using them. If I were you, I would not even consider forgoing the condoms unless you have both had recent STI testing, including herpes and HIV and you are 100% certain that he is not cheating on you (although he cannot be tested for HPV so you could still catch that and as a result get genital warts or be at risk for cervical cancer). Otherwise you could end up with some incurable disease. I would suggest a extra thin condom and he can put a tiny bit of lube inside of it. My fiance, who is uncircumcised, likes the Trojan Naked Sensation ultra ribbed condoms. Good luck.

I once read somewhere in a sex education site here on the Internet about how to properly put on condom on a man's penis.
If I remember correctly, with an uncircumcised man, you have to kind of pull back the foreskin until the tip of the penis is shown, and then put the condom on.
You can always check those sex ed sites yourself, of course.

And, the choice of condom brand can help too. There are a lot of brands of condoms out there. You and your partner can choose one that suits both of you best. Maybe have a condom survey if you know what I mean? *wink wink.

I'm currently with an uncircumcised guy and I'm getting a bit worried because it really appears that he can't cum during intercourse with a condom. In fact, he usually ends up losing his erection halfway through, gets frustrated, and then can't get it back. Using condoms seems difficult for him in the first place, even magnums, which mostly fit, but aren't quite long enough. Luckily, it's easy for me to reach orgasm. But I'd like to know that he's getting something out of the experience, too.
Maybe we just need to get more creative, but he seems so frustrated with himself that I'm hesitant to bring it up.

Stevie-let me know if anything works for you. So far, no luck for us :( Same situation--frustration and loss of erection.

My guy used to smoke pot, and I have heard that even if a guy has stopped smoking it--and he did a long time ago--it can still impair his ability to get or keep an erection. May just have to get creative and make sure he knows there's no pressure.

not being able to orgasm is mental not physical.

Has anyone here tried the female condom, for those having issues with the too tight male one?

Also wanted to add that perhaps when he cannot come and you are done you could just take the condom off and finish him off manually and/or orally.

I'm in the same boat as Stevie's guy, and I take issue with the "it's a dirtbag trick" line. Maybe with some men, and yes, they are dirtbags. But not enjoying sex is a legit problem that can damage even the healthiest relationships, or prevent them from starting up in the first place.

Sometimes it's not mysterious "other factors"; it's just anatomy. There's this myth that men are always meant to be rock hard at a moment's notice, and anything less means Something Is Wrong. It really doesn't work that way.

I'm now exiting a several years long monogamous relationship (we used other birth control instead of condoms), so unfortunately it's going to be time to deal with this problem again. I was actually thinking of getting a Fleshlight and buying several different brands of condoms, so I could experiment with what works well without the pressure of someone else there.

i am an uncircumcised guy. i can last a long time even without a condom so strap one on me and i can go for a very long time. gotta use alot of lube. also the whole forskin dissapears is also a lie. it can with some guys but mine is about same length no matter what. just enough to cover the whole head. i enjoyed the not sexually mutilated comment alot. i agree fully. it takes me a long time with a condom it feels like i can't orgasm. i thought honey mooners rash was bad try wearing a condom for marathon sex. the latex rubbed me the wrong way.

This article is pretty damn ignorant. Yea, there are dirtbags out there, but if a guy doesn't want to use a condom because it doesn't feel good...it's cause it doesn't. I'm an uncircumsized guy, and after dozens of condoms I've achieved orgasm once. That was probably nerves, actually. For the ignorant, here's how a penis is supposed to work: the foreskin moves up and down the head, which provides stimulation, and when not erect, the foreskin protects the head. A circumcised penis does not have that extra skin, so firstly it is not as sensitive: like having a nail pulled off, it's sensitive, but if you don't ever grow it back, it becomes less sensitive over time. This also affects, secondly, the amount of stimulation needed to achieve orgasm. Luckily, vaginas provide plenty, and there's no extra skin to muddle things up, so condoms are easier. For us uncircumsized, the heads are more sensitive, and most men rely on the sort of gentle friction provided by our foreskin. Therefore pinning the foreskin back and using a condom like a circumsized guy not only doesn't work the same, it can be downright uncomfortable (even painful). To complicate matters, the amount of foreskin and elasticity of said foreskin is different from guy to guy. Some guys have virtually no apparent foreskin when erects, and others still have enough to cover the entire head. There is no one-size-fits-all. My personal problem is the condom slips up and the head no longer gets any stimulation, but i've read other guys complain that it hurts, gets twisted, comes off.
This is very late after the initial post, but for others who might stumble upon this site, I have read that a tighter fitting condom might help. Use a dab of lube, pull the skin back as far as it'll go, roll the condom half down the shaft, push the skin back up to it's normal position (there'll be two layers of latex between your foreskin and head, and making sure they don't pull out is why a tighter condom seems important), then finish unrolling the condom. Good luck. And be sensitive, ladies. It's not always easy for guys, either.