The answer to whether all men cheat truly depends on who you talk to and on what day. I know plenty of men who have never cheated (or at least have never admitted to as much). At the same time, I know some guys who don't know how NOT to cheat.
I think it largely depends on the man you're dealing with.
Now I tend to think that if you're dating a man who has a lot of trifling and dirty friends who put him in positions to cheat, then he's likely to stop fighting the temptation at some point. Then again, he probably could just as easily remove himself from those situations himself.
(Same goes for women, by the way.)
So ultimately, I think it comes down to dedication and loyalty. Look, there's plenty of women running around that would be more than willing to give most men a peek at the...ya know. Men know this and we spend a lot of time deflecting advances. For some odd reason, it would seem that women LOVE unavailable men. However, if a man is truly in love and dedicated to not ruining what he has at home, then he will be able to deftly and easily avoid cheating.
Just depends on how much love and respect (because that's also a big component of it, a real man won't disrespect his woman by cheating on her) the man has for his woman. If it's there in spades, he will be too. So to answer that question, it doesn't have to happen and yes men can be faithful.
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Amen!
People cheat for a lot of different reasons, a lot of the times it's because they are rotten scum bags but it could be from being in a bad relationship and won't get out. Anybody can cheat at any time, but when you care about somebody you just won't even if the opportunity arrises frequently.
I'd say don't spend your whole life thinking the person your with is ganna cheat, spend the time your with them ensuring they won't want to, and if they do after you tried your best then cross your fingers and hope they catch an STD...naw I'm joking! But move on, perfect your skills and work on the next one.
I know not all men cheat but I feel like the men I come across find it really hard not to. I say this because I'm a sophmore in college and there are a lot of women here. A lot more than there are men and I think if I was a guy I'd probably not be in a relationship at all and if I was to be in one, it would be hard to resist all the beautiful women... many of which will go after a guy even if he has a girl just because there's so few of them.
So what is a girl like me to do? Do I go for older guys who are already out of school or do I keep trying to find someone in my age range who is willing to commit, knowing they will constantly be tempted by other women?
to delyciouzxma: Well personally I always ignored a guy's age, and focused more on their personality and interests and how they related to mine. (someone who is 10 years older but is a nerdy sweetheart and thoughtful and likes the same music and hobbies is much more appealing to me than a perhaps sexier guy my age, who doesn't share my hobbies/interests)
Find the men that don't cheat. Pay attention to your gut, and work on listening to your instincts. You should be able to get a sense of a guy within the first minute. Now, it won't give you the whole picture, but it is valuable information. First impressions really do count.
I dated three guys in college. The first I only dated here and there, and I felt that he was probably dating other women, and later I found out he was indeed seeing multiple people. The second guy I thought would probably eventually cheat in a long term marriage, but probably wouldn't divorce me for someone else. I dated him for a year and it was good. The third guy I dated for two years, and I don't think he would ever cheat on anyone he had a relationship with, since he's just the type of guy to rarely get in a relationship (he was just more of a "deep" kind of guy and so not the kind to look for one night stand stuff).
This information I give is basically to say that there are many different kinds of guys, and a lot won't cheat, at least not in the short term. Give 30 years, and at some point the planets may align and create a cheating event. I can think of several of my mom's friends' marriages where the guy had like one indiscretion over a lifetime marriage. Then, there are some guys who just are cheaters, and do it more than once... those guys you send packing.