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Dear Funny Guy, do you really believe that if a guy actually likes a girl he will do whatever it takes (within reason) to show up? I.e. if she asks him to stop by for a beer.

Yes. I absolutely believe that.

Those in the dating world, who have an IQ over 80, know how to let a person know they dig them. They answer their phone. They text back. They remember where you're supposed to meet. They remember when you're supposed to meet. They remember your allergy to gluten and show up with a bouquet of your favorite flowers. They borrow a car when theirs breaks down. They borrow a bike when that other car breaks down. They act, and do, and remember because it's in their best interest. They want to get into your heart and/or crotch and will do things to ensure that.

"Yeah, but Funny Guy, what about those who play hard to get? The guys and gals that see their phone ring and think, yay, he's calling, I'm going to let it go to voicemail - make him sweat it out." Agreed. There is that tactic. But I assure you that will only happen a few times, at most. If you're still making excuses why he didn't show up for a beer or text you back, it's because they don't want to. Stop telling yourself that he'll call back; his cell phone is just dead. No it's not. Your relationship is.

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i'm going to print this out and put it on my mirror

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"... a guy actually likes a girl he will do whatever it takes..."

Only if he's a push over, has no life, and completely obsessed over you.
One girl wants a guy to do whatever it takes to be with her, the next girl is gonna want a guy to give her space.
Good luck with that.

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"if a guy actually likes a girl he will do whatever it takes (WITHIN REASON)"... Big difference.

Doesn't always mean he is a pushover, has no life, or is obsessed. Maybe he is just into the girl and wants to show her.

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