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Dear Girls' BFF: There's a guy that I like, who of course doesn't really know I'm alive. Meanwhile, tons of guys I would never date are all over me. Have you ever noticed you always get hit on by the ones you don't like, while the one you do like could care less? What gives, and what shoud I do?

This only happens because you're paying attention to it and you have a guy you want who isn't paying you any attention. It's called life. It's pretty much how things happen for everybody. If you want a new car, everybody seems to have a new car.

Not the same parallel but the point, when we want something that doesn't want us, it seems like everything else does. Now a dapper debonair boho like myself doesn't have these problems. Nobody hits on me period.

*rimshot*

What gives? Well, perhaps he's busy as hell with his own life and its goings-ons to know you exist. Or the more likely, you notice him from afar in a way that he'd never know you exist anyway. Like on a college campus with 30,000 students. You've noticed him but you've never made yourself stand out to him. So the only way to get noticed is to be noticeable. Introduce yourself. Or get hit by his car. (Editor's Note: We're not really advocating that you do this. - Mgmt). Or drop your books on his toe. Something that makes him have to notice you so that you can hopefully have that fairty tell story you want.

Point is, do something. Or you'll be writing in three years from now asking if you should stalk a guy you never talked to 3 years ago that doesn't know you exist but are sure there's some connection there.

Oh, and by the way, do realize that just because he knows you're alive at some point doesn't necessarily mean he will actually want you. I'm sure you're lovely and he will, just thought I'd mention that. Mmkay, pumpkin?

Kay.

Byeeeeee.

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I have to say that for the last few of hours i have been hooked by the impressive posts on this blog. Keep up the good work.

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hahha I agree

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