Yeah, I think guys "care." I think given the choice of a totally unhaired assh*le and one that is covered in fur, they'd opt for the former. But generally speaking, it's probably not a deal breaker. We are mammals living in a non-photoshopped universe. Besides you speak of "a little." To me that means peach fuzz, a soft tuft, or scattered little brown wisps. Most guys will chalk that up to you not being a magazine cut-out.
But, had you said "a lottle" as opposed to "a liitle", i.e. a full-on Patrick Dempsey coif in the ass-crack, you'll probably want to consider some grooming to accommodate modern man's expectations. All men? NO. But when the average man plays around with a girl's tushie and has to wade through hair, it will likely go in the negative column.
A quick razor in the shower, a periodic visit to the local boutique, some lemon juice bleaching or a boyfriend who religiously follows the Allman Brothers should all do the trick.
Good luck, Cheeks.
Funny Guy
They literally don't care. None I've ever slept with, anyway. Wisps of hair around there are natural, and no-one who gives an actual damn about you is going to be bothered in the slightest. We all have "flaws", and many people would see this as just being an attribute of your body, instead of something positive or negative.
Also, if I can be brutally honest here, it's there for many reasons, such as helping poop come away easier when you wipe, and trapping sweat to make your body easier to wash. Something very useful in that area.
Please don't just think of the current trends in "beauty"; your body has evolved this way for many many reasons. And I wish more guyspeak answers would be more careful when giving out medical and bodily advice, instead of just musing on the aesthetic of it.
Good grief, she asked if guys care, not if there is a god given reason for ass hair.
Besides, hair is a trap for said poop, not a teflon-like coating.
Truth be known, many guys do care. Should that become an issue for women? I guess that is up to them. On the flip side, there are men that like a natural playground. Each to his own.
Lemon juice bleaching though? Surely you jest?
what about the hair in HIS crack. come on!
and isn't a-hole bleach reserved for porn stars, or am I really "behind." ew.
your first sentence killed me... lmbo!!!! ;)
UH go fuck yourself Jan. Mouse was just giving facts. What the fuck is your janny problem. Men dont care. Theyre too busy doing things to their dicks. SO go and trim your ass crack if men do care.
First and foremost, who cares what the fuck men think in the first place?
My ex cared. He cared so much that he actually said something about it. Needless to say, my @sscrack has been smooth as glass ever since then.
Sure, he was just a rude asshole, but if a couple of assholes are willing to say it, I bet lots of guys think it.
Why does them thinking it mean you have to change yourself? Perhaps I'm just attracted to people that just aren't that shallow. I have several body bits that might be considered flaws, like cellulite, a big arse, stretchmarks, scarring, lots of things like that, but I've never been with (and nor would I be with!) anyone who would actually care. If they were the sort of person to care that I have "imperfections" - OH NO! - like the natural human being I am, then they're not the sort of person I want to be with.
My body is human and I don't deny it. I don't look to the media or external sources like asshole partners to define myself. If this is the way I am made, then this is the way I am. And if it makes YOU happy to change it, then fair enough, but if you're doing it just to make some superficial idiot happy because you look more like the women he wanks to who have been airbrushed and waxed and plucked to high hell, then there's just something wrong there, imo. Why worry about these silly little things when we all have them? I genuinely do not understand modern society.
As a man, it does bother me if a women has a noticeable amount of hair down there. As FG says, some hair is normal and doesn't matter, but having obvious hair that can be felt easily when a hand is placed there can be very disturbing. It might not be fair to place those expectations on a partner but I follow the 'to each their own' rule of thought.
As for men having butt hair, etc. I lucked out and with my Scottish background I grow lots of hair on my head, face, and a moderate amount on my chest. My arms, legs, and private areas are naturally more sparse. Plus I am blonde, so that helps haha. I do think if a man makes a big deal about something like this, then his partner has every right to say "Okay, no problem, but you should do something about your back/chest/ass/crotch/moses-like beard.".
There is another question about reciprocating oral. The same rule applies here. If your boyfriend/girlfriend tells you that they'd like you to change your landscaping, then you have every right to ask the same of them.
Are you a true scotsman when it comes to wearing a kilt? Oh how I love men in kilts!
How are we supposed to know what's normal? As a woman, I'm not in the habit of getting THAT close to other women, you know? And it's not like magazines, tv or porn are going to be really helpful in figuring out what is natural, healthy, normal and widely acceptable. There are things I'm self conscious about and I have no idea if other women have them, and conversely I'm sure that there are things I don't even know I'm supposed to be "fixing." And heaven help us, doesn't waxing that hurt like a b****?!
Guys should look long and hard at their own ass crack before asking us to wax ours.
One guy I slept with had hair so long there it stood out like a brush when he was standing; not attractive...
Oh GOD, the mental image!
Yeah like it or not, even the most liberated, understanding feminist-friendly dude doens't want a patrick dempsy. It's all about moderation.
I agree with the other comments about guys doing our bit to be well groomed in the pubic district.
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