No, guys appreciate lingerie. Tearing it off you is the ultimate compliment. What, you want him to stop and admire the lace patterns and stitching? The lingerie is making your body look good. It's the appetizer to the main course, the wrapping on the candy bar. You and your lingerie has turned him on so much, he has to tear it off you like a hungry bear ripping through a campsite.
If the sight of you in lingerie causes his mouth to drop and his eyes to bug out like a cartoon wolf, it's safe to say he likes what you're wearing. If you want to see what he thinks of a new piece of lingerie, by all means, surprise him by coming out in it. (Just don't do it when his parents are over.) If you're out shopping, ask him to go to Victoria's Secret with you. See what he likes. (Don't be offended if he feels a little awkward in Victoria's Secret. Guys never know what to do there. Once they enter they're like deers in headlights or kids in a candy store who aren't allowed to touch any of the candy.)
No man has ever had a problem with lingerie. Often, they pull the old "this present is really more for me" gift and get it for you for Valentine's Day. So let him pick out some for you if he's into that. But definitely take the fact that they can't wait to get you out of your lingerie as a compliment.
If the sight of you in lingerie causes his mouth to drop and his eyes to bug out like a cartoon wolf, it's safe to say he likes what you're wearing. If you want to see what he thinks of a new piece of lingerie, by all means, surprise him by coming out in it. (Just don't do it when his parents are over.) If you're out shopping, ask him to go to Victoria's Secret with you. See what he likes. (Don't be offended if he feels a little awkward in Victoria's Secret. Guys never know what to do there. Once they enter they're like deers in headlights or kids in a candy store who aren't allowed to touch any of the candy.)
No man has ever had a problem with lingerie. Often, they pull the old "this present is really more for me" gift and get it for you for Valentine's Day. So let him pick out some for you if he's into that. But definitely take the fact that they can't wait to get you out of your lingerie as a compliment.
Thanks Nick!
My bf and all the exs just like never pay any attention to my lingeries. NEVER~
Sometimes, they even tear my clothes apart(in fact they had ruined some of my favourite outfits and lingeries). So i got the feeling they don't even care what i wear.
But now i have a new understanding of the men' perspectives after reading your answer. You always gives the great one!
I will follow your advice to take him to VS,I don't think he'll be awkward if i invite him to the dressing room.
Geez. Either you're exaggerating and just trying to brag or you've dated some real buffoons. I mean, what kind of inconsiderate douche would rip your actual clothes? I only hope you made them buy you replacements.
She probably meant "rip them off" as in hurrying so fast it almost seems like they are ripping the wrapper off a candy bar.I have the same issue, ya, as women we appreciate the lace and stitching and how it makes us feel..and maybe we like to do a little teasing first by wearing it in front of him BEFORE he starts "ripping it off"...it can be a turn on to us to feel sexy and look pretty...sometimes when we are naked we may feel a little too exposed or feel more self conscious if the lingerie maybe covered some flaws or lifted the breasts, etc...Sometime when you are NOT in the throws of passion, you could ask him if sometime we can "go slower" and you could see what I'm wearing for a little while so it teases you and I feel more sexy. Just a thought. I know I was offended at times too. I went to alot of trouble to make things match and look nice only to have him kind of wait until we got to the bedroom to make any "foreplay" kind of activity and that usually wasn't quite enough for me. I like it to last a while..like maybe sip some wine in your lingerie..and when you're done with the wine and chatting on the couch, etc..I'm sure he got a good look and is ready to start touching what's under it. I personally find it erotic for him to touch me around and through my lingerie first, then slip it off..or sometimes just "move it over" to have access to what is important..that's kind of sexy too..just a thought.