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do man really stop wanting sex after moving in with their girl.

No. Man no really want stop sex after moving in with their girl. Man want more sex after moving in with girl. Man see girl. Man want girl. Man have access at all times.

Man usually want move in with girl FOR more sex with girl. That how man end up married.

So easy a caveman could do it.

(By the way, the smart version of what I just said is this: Guys usually want more sex when they move in with their girls because technically, it should be more ready available. No guy in his right mind is going to desire it any less, so if somehow your guy wants sex less now that you live together, then there's some other problem that maybe living together exacerbated. Explore that. But don't for a second think that since you live together, sex should stop. It should increase.)

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I've always had the opposite happen. Move in with a guy, they get a bit used to you being around, don't feel like they need to impress so much, and your sex life can go a bit down the drain. And yes, they've been in their right mind, but it's a very stupid people-trait (that is very very common) to get a bit slack with the people we love if we think we don't need to do much to keep them.

I don't think men, in general, have the outrageous libidos that the media, etc, paints them as having. Of course there are highly sexed men, but there are highly sexed women. Before moving in with someone, instead of simplifying it down to "Yes he'll want more sex because you'll be around more", I think the more important issue is are you both on the same sexual wavelength? Because if you're more highly charged and you're worried he might not be, then that might be a good reason to have a trial period before committing fully.

Just speaking from experience.

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me like you cave man talk

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Ya I dont know how true that is. Before I moved in with my guy he constantly wanted sex...like 3-5 times a day...when we moved in together it started to drop...now Im lucky if I get it once a week...sometimes not even that. I try to ignore it, and try to not say anything but he still says its because I always want it...I dont know if I should be worried or if he just lost it...

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I'd suggest it's not going to work for you two. I had exactly that. Sexual incompatibility is usually a deal-breaker, and lazy lovers should be kicked to the curb.

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I'm in what I'd consider a perfect relationship AND I'm 20 year olds (in February).
Granted, my libido, and my girlfriend's is very strong.
But after the last summer's experience I learned a very valuable lesson.

My girlfriend and I got lucky housing and roommates and ended up five doors down from each other in college apartments, able to have sex any day of the week and sleep over any night.

We did so, a lot.

We both got bored somewhat. Duh. There are two sex drives in one relationship (well most), and usually it only takes one partner to initiate sex (because the other one will usually say HELL YES). Therefore, you have about double the sex you want to overall, even if you both have the same libidos, different timing.

Even sex needs motivation. And housing together boyfriend/girlfriend is basically saying "let's spread the built up motivation we would have pent up in a week for that Sunday night into all days of the week and every possible hour...and see how thin that motivation can lay"

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