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Do men even notice things on women like nice arms or a nice back? I spend a lot of time working out those areas.

The answer is yes and no. The thing is guys do not notice these areas unless there is something wrong with them. So, while a guy will notice a girl with fat, floppy, chicken arms he will not notice the opposite. The same with the back, if a girl has a bunch of goop bulging out over her bra strap, he will notice, but if she has none he will not.

My advice to you is to only work out those areas should they become a problem, for now just work out your butt and stomach like a normal girl.

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Ha ha, thanks.. I only focus on those areas because I have flat abs and a toned ass already ! thanks :)

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This is good to know, as I have a chicken back, and wings to match, so I guess I am in the clear?

You gotta love those tags...

creamnsugar65

I dont think this is always the case. From experience, some guys do notice.

agneris

It's true!! I just confirmed it with my bf he says that they pay a lot more attention to the butt, legs and stomach.

Bobolequiff

I've gotta disagree with Mystery Man. I for one certainly notice; I think most guys do. True, you don't hear guys saying "Wow! Would you look at the arms on her!" unless there's something unusual about them but we notice when they look good, we're just not very good at quantifying exactly what it is we like unless it's in the face, boobs, butt, stomach or leg areas.


We're not that smart is what I'm saying.

Also: Remember that whatever makes you feel better about yourself will make you more attractive. Confidence is hot.

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Wow, how thrilling to know that you pick apart women's bodies. As if they don't do enough of that themselves. I am a woman and I can assure you I don't waste my time pointing out "goop" or "flat floppy chicken arms" on men...

Rude.

Rii Hon

what is so rude about it? Chicks do it all the bloody time to men as well! It's not something 'pointed out' it's just something that's done. I've wandered around plenty of times and I'd notice someone and, without much thinking to it, go 'eww he has man boobs' or 'gross! His chicken wing arms reach his waist!' or something like that. Or 'OMFG WHY are you wearing a bright pink, skin tight shirt when you can hide children with your extra folds?!' Just like I can look at a hot guy and go 'mm nice ass., 'great abs' or 'I want to feel his strong arms around me'. It's subconscious for the most part and most people do it without truly realizing that they do.

I am a girl and I know I do these things and so does my mate. Hell, we've both looked at men and women and compare what parts we like and what we don't like, since we're both open with the fact we're bi. It's nothing rude or harmful (unless you're the idiot type of human soul who goes up to the person and says it to their face or something >

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