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Do men speak the TRUTH when they are drunk or stoned or both ie they really have feelings for you? What to do?

I'm not sure I'd trust anything that anybody said while they were drunk, high, stoned, Tiger Woods, or all of the above. Well not really above since this wasn't done as a list, but you catch my drift.

I've heard tale that drunk minds speak sober thoughts or something as such. As true as that may be, do you really want to be concerning yourself with the feelings of somebody who needs a few shots of Jager to tell you how much he cares about you? Plus, dude has not only a built in disclaimer of denail - hey, he was drunk - but he also has THEME music to go with it thanks to Jamie Foxx's ubiquitous "Blame It On The Alcohol" a song that I'm sure President Bush would have loved to have had at his disposal during his term.

*rimshot*

All you can really do is ask him, "So, do you remember anything you said the other night to me while you were drunk?"

If he says, "Yes, I professed my love to you and I meant it. Let's go get some BBQ and get busy", then rah rah rah, sis boom bah for you. But if you ask and he neither remembers nor acknowledges saying anything worthy of note, then you must keep it moving, yeah yeah, to the K.I.M.

But just as a word to the wise, if the only time somebody tells you how they feel is when they're drunk, you probably shouldn't be too concerned with how they fit into your life. I mean, that's got to be the gateway drug to Jerry Springer, right?

Right.

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prettylady

I agree that since alcohol lowers inhibitions, then the things people say tend to be true because they dont have as much of their internal conscience working on censoring things... if that makes sense. When a guy friend come onto me while drunk, I definitely think they've been harboring some secret desires of course. I say beleive what they say, but don't think that since they've admitted their feelings that they will act on them.

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What a lovely day for a 844241! SCK was here

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i definetly think drunk\high minds speak sober thoughts. My ex boyfriend who i have talked to in about 2 months and we hate each other randomly messaged me on facebook (remind you, were not friends on facebook) to message me and tell me how sorry he was and how much hes in love with me and has been since the day he said it 8 months ago blahblahblah. may i remind you, were not friends on facebook so he went out of his way to find me on facebook to message me. and obviously he was thinking about me or he wouldnt have messaged me. anyways, come to find out the next day he tells me he was so high and he didnt mean any of it except for being sorry. thats bullshit because he ment all of it but like he said when he was high, he was too scared to admit it. so he took it all back and walked out of my life again. im used to it so im not hurt but drunk\high minds really do speak sober thoughts.

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