Nope. Don't care. Or wait, just to clarify:
If you're talking about eating my mother's delicious homemade meatloaf, then yes, please.
If you're talking about giving me oral sex, then you should know I'm a happily married man.
If you're talking about the IDEA of giving a blowjob and the "you" is more of a collective thing, then clearly you asked someone who takes things far too literally. And nope. Don't care.
I honestly don't get the obsession guys have (if we even do...I feel like that might just be something my TV tells me to believe) with whether a girl spits out or ingests your ejaculate after a blowjob. Is that really what you're worried about immediately after orgasm? I'm usually all "ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh," not "is she? Is she going to swallow? I HAVE TO KNOW!"
I suppose there's a romantic element to it, but there's also a very strong overcoming grossness element that I'd never require of anyone. If you're into it at the moment, go for it. It sure saves on cleanup. Otherwise handle it however you want to. It really doesn't effect me in any substantive way.
And frankly, we're in no position to be asking favors from you immediately after you've brought us to climax with your mouth. That's like getting a new bike for Christmas and asking your parents why it doesn't have tassles on the handlebars.
I just dont get the point of spitting it out... its already in your mouth. If you have just stuck a penis in your mouth for however long it takes to bring him to orgasm, why not just swallow the results? spitting just seems roundabout and weird to me. how is it less gross? seems like if you dont like it that much you should choose another way to finish up/another activity altogether.
I don't see the point of getting it in your mouth at all. There's usually ample time to point the penis at a nearby napkin, stomach or small animal.
Difficult to answer the question. As the Funny Guy said, most guys could care less what their partner does with it. Some guys have an aversion to making out with their partner after oral sex, and those men would most likely prefer to finish somewhere away from the mouth.
i have a question...where are you supposed to spit it out?! if you're in the bedroom, it's not like there's a really good place to get rid of it that won't be gross and awkward later. i've never been in this situation so i have no idea...someone please tell me. also doesn't it sort of kill the moment?
Meh, if you're with the right kind of guy it sometimes adds a little humor when you give a little side-mouthed "excuse me" and run to the nearest trash can. I haven't really noticed if my bf cares if I swallow or not, but if I were a betting lady, I think he feels a little better about himself when I pretend it's not the grossest thing I've ever swallowed.
An empty mug?
Some kleenex?
There are a lot of places to spit out jissom.
I have two words for this issue.
WARN ME!
I loathe the taste with a fiery passion, and I want the opportunity to scramble in the other direction when Winkie explodes. Preferably to retrieve a nearby towel set aside for cleaning up.
As long as it's starts in the mouth, who cares. If she jumps away and doesn't actually finish, that's a problem, but still better than no oral at all.
I always warn my wife so that I don't cum in her mouth. She appreciates that, and it usually just ends up on my belly (I'm usually lying down). A few times she has chosen to swallow, usually while under the influence of alcohol, etc. And yes, I do reciprocate.
I always warn my wife so that I don't cum in her mouth. She appreciates that, and it usually just ends up on my belly (I'm usually lying down). A few times she has chosen to swallow, usually while under the influence of alcohol, etc. And yes, I do reciprocate.
I always warn my wife so that I don't cum in her mouth. She appreciates that, and it usually just ends up on my belly (I'm usually lying down). A few times she has chosen to swallow, usually while under the influence of alcohol, etc. And yes, I do reciprocate.
My boyfriend once started getting really insistent that I swallow. I did not refuse, but I did ask him what the big deal was. Not being a guy, I couldn't imagine what possible benefit there could be, and if I was going to do it, I wanted to understand the appeal. His only answer was "I can't tell you. I just can't. I know you think that it something to do with me wanting to violate your insides in some kind of rapey way, like I own you inside and out and am money-shooting your guts like your nothing but my personal spend receptacle, but I promise, that's not it at all. But I can't tell you what it is."
While I may be paraphrasing, I am not exaggerating. And this being my only insight into this issue, I'd advise steering clear of guys who demand that you swallow.
I've been with girls who spit, swallowed, and some who wouldn't let it go off in their mouths. That's all OK with me, whatever they are comfortable with. But one girl stayed on and whatever she did at the "moment of truth" made my ears pop. God why didn't I marry her?
It doesn't matter if you spit or swallow. It's the fact that you are doing it to give him pleasure. I will do I try anything if I know it turns him on. He has shot on my boobs, while I watched him looking at me. Very hot.
Guys don't particularly care if you swallow, some just enjoy if it is swallowed. The thought of a girl wanting the guys bodily fluids makes her seem possessive and like she enjoys it which is the turn on for the general mass that enjoy it.