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Does having a drunk makeout session with a crush hurt my chances of something happening with him in the future?

Not necessarily. At least you know he's interested. And you didn't sleep together, so there's still some mystery. The trick now is to spend time with him without the aid of liquid courage. Hopefully he's interested and will ask you out. Just act normal around him and let him know you had fun at the party. Minimize whatever weirdness there might be post-face smushing. Try to spend time with him sober (dinner, coffee, etc.) where you can get to know each other and let the sparks fly without the help of Senors Jose and Cuervo.

Many amazing relationships have started with drunken makeout sessions. I'll tell you a little story: Many years ago, this guy I know (let's call him "Hipster Nerd") drunkenly made out with his crush at a coworker's birthday party. A few days later, she told him she felt weird about it and wanted to be friends. Hipster Nerd was bummed, and drowned his sorrows in comic books and whatever video game was popular at the time. But he didn't give up! He made sure to keep his flirt going and be a nice, not awkward presence in her life. He kept a bit of distance and mystery so as not to be forever banished to the friend zone. And lo and behold, a few weeks later they went on an actual date which eventually blossomed into a long-term relationship.

So follow Hipster Nerd's example. It can happen to you!
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You now, why are women like men now? Using profanity, being unclassy, grabbing their crotches, and burping, and getting DRUNK. I am a feminist and believe in equal rights, but dont believe in equal NASTINESS (most men are pretty disgusting, men know that ).

Hey guys on guyspeak, stop answering dumb questions from whores, disgusting fetish obsess women, women who clearly dont think before they act, and start answering REAL questions from classy women.

Or are you guys (excluding classy Wise Ass Cary) turned on by these types of disgusting/lame/stupid questions and like to probe them in your dirty minds before answering them?

Ta-ta.

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Holy... you sound like you need a hug.

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I think you need to look up the definition of whore in the dictionary and stop throwing the word around. Not classy at all.

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Oh really? Having drunk make out sessions with guys makes a woman a whore? Ohh lordy I'm a dirty dirty whore then. Sounds like someone needs more than a hug... if you get my meaning. Ohh I have the perfect solution, you should get together with the guy that didn't want his girlfriend to go bars and get drunk ( she wrote in here a few days ago.) She'd be free of the controlling jerk and he gets woman who will stay home and you get a good...hug. win.win.win.

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Ohh and you exclude Cary as the only non perverted and only 'classy' guy on here...did you miss that blog he just did 'Names for boobs'? That was NOT classy but pretty freaking hilarious. IMO

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How can you call yourself a feminist and use the word whore to describe a woman? Using the words whore and slut degrade women and make them feel like they can't enjoy their sexuality without being judged.
In your eyes, I'm a whore, and I'm damn proud of it!!

Katie

Also, way to go Hipster Nerd!
I got drunk and made out with my now boyfriend the night I met him. Well... we did a lot more than make out, haha. We've been together for a year and a half now, and we're moving in together soon :)

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It means there are some sparks. He should take the next step, if he doesn't gently hint to him you're definitely interested in something more. For all you know, he's had feelings for you but weren't sure how you felt and didn't want to risk the friendship.

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