Do we have to use the term "snuggly pals"? Can't he be your "guy who holds you in his manly embrace"? Does he want to be your boyfriend? Maybe. Does he want to get into your pants? Definitely. A straight guy never cuddles with a girl who isn't his girlfriend unless he's trying to get into her pants. Okay, maybe he does if he's into weird cuddle parties. But that's a whole other topic...
Methinks there is something else going on here. Are you just, uh, "snuggly pals," or are you "snuggly pals with benefits"? Because if so, then I think you have your answer.
If he's coming over for regular snuggle sessions, maybe it's time to inquire about his true feelings. Say when you're mid-snuggle, cuddled up in your Snuggie, enjoying some nice cocoa and watching The Notebook. Squeeze your away out of the Snuggie, look him in the eye and say, "Hey snuggly pal. This snuggle time is pretty darn snuggly and all. But I need to know where this is going if we are going to keep being snuggly pals."
It's the old "why would he buy the snuggly cow, if he gets the snuggles for free?" scenario. Pull yourself out of the snuggle cocoon for a minute and get real. Then maybe you can be "snuggly pals" who also occasionally call each other "boyfriend" and "girlfriend."
Methinks there is something else going on here. Are you just, uh, "snuggly pals," or are you "snuggly pals with benefits"? Because if so, then I think you have your answer.
If he's coming over for regular snuggle sessions, maybe it's time to inquire about his true feelings. Say when you're mid-snuggle, cuddled up in your Snuggie, enjoying some nice cocoa and watching The Notebook. Squeeze your away out of the Snuggie, look him in the eye and say, "Hey snuggly pal. This snuggle time is pretty darn snuggly and all. But I need to know where this is going if we are going to keep being snuggly pals."
It's the old "why would he buy the snuggly cow, if he gets the snuggles for free?" scenario. Pull yourself out of the snuggle cocoon for a minute and get real. Then maybe you can be "snuggly pals" who also occasionally call each other "boyfriend" and "girlfriend."
This made me laugh more than any other answer on here ever. (Sorry, Swaim!)
Snuggly cow... Hehehe... Good advice!
oh wow. That was entertaining. Thank you.
he's needy
"A straight guy never cuddles with a girl who isn't his girlfriend unless he's trying to get into her pants."
lol I learned that the hard way!
"It's the old "why would he buy the snuggly cow, if he gets the snuggles for free?" scenario."
I'm having a terrible day and this made me laugh. Thanks Nick!
Love the "snuggly wuggly widdle bear" tag! lol
Have to disagree with you, Chic Geek. My best friend of about six years likes to come to my house and watch a movie snuggled up under a blanket. He is not gay and has a long-term girlfriend. He used to come over every day as well. I guess it's the old argument about whether or not men can just be friends with women - for me there is no argument, of course. =D
Stevie--is he snuggled with you, or beside you? If he's snuggled up beside you and resting his head on your shoulder, in true snuggle style, I think his girlfriend might be mad... If he is snuggled by himself, under his own blanket, that's fine.
But I'm picturing the OP snuggly/cuddly with each other. I wouldn't do that with my best friend (who is a guy) if I had a boyfriend.
And yeah, this post is just pure awesome. especially as Katie pointed out, the "snuggly wuggly widdle bear" tag!!!
rotflmmfao!
Well i have to say that sometimes you can just be friends but sometimes it can be more. I snuggle/cuddle with my guy friends even if i have a boyfriend. But that could be because my boyfriends all trust me and my guy friends know that i won't cheat and if i liked you we wouldn't be just cuddling right now :)
Hands Down best response I've read yet!
This made me laugh for too long out loud - just awesome!