My wife has two, actually, and no, I never get tired of ogling either of them. But then, I have a pubescent boy's fascination with the female body and I'm a sucker for a nice set of squachies.
Not all men are wired the same, though. I once worked with a guy who'd been married about three years, as had I at the time. One day he told me that even though his wife had a "kick-ass body," he'd already become bored with it. Said he, "She could walk around the house 'butt-naked' all day long and I wouldn't even notice." Really? Que está loco, amigo! So I told him to send her naked ass over to my house, because I'd definitely notice. He didn't care much for that idea. Oh well, just trying to help, chief. No thanks necessary.
But enough about me (even though you asked me about me, because I know you're really asking me about you and your husband, which is fine -- that's why I'm here). The simple answer is this: everyone's different. Some people by nature get bored easily and start looking for the next new thing, while others learn to appreciate and savor what they have. Some of that patience comes with age and experience and learning that the grass is nowhere near as green as it looks from this side of the fence, but that's no guarantee, either, when you think about the scads of older men who trade in their wives for younger hotties.
I think the biggest factor in enduring attraction is the strength of your relationship on an emotional level. Attraction begins in the mind, and it is driven by things like trust and mutual respect and an authentic fondness for one another. I'm still attracted to my wife's naked body because I know that she loves me, she likes me (two different things), she's still attracted to my fat ass, and she makes me happy. I love her for who she is, so I'm naturally attracted to her physical appearance. The attraction is the by-product of a strong emotional relationship. It's almost impossible to be turned on by someone we dislike.
Most happily married men still love seeing their wives naked and -- as the kids like to say -- tappin' that ass. If you and your husband have a good emotional relationship, I have no doubt that he still has the hots for you and that same ol' breast (either of them).
Wow - that was an awesome answer. It make me feel kind of warm and.. oh never mind.
IMHO, that's what most people who get bored are missing -- the emotional component: love and like and all that stuff. It's hard to find, harder to keep, but critical to keeping things going for the long haul.
Thanks, Liz.
Squachies--HA! I learned a new word. :-D
Yes, I agree. Well said. Attraction is kind of a package deal, so to speak. If the emotions aren't there; the caring and the wanting what is best for the other person, then it is unlikely the physical attraction will be around for the long haul.
lol hah damn straight TAP THAT ASS
Totally totally loves your post and agree with everything you said. I mean, I am a married woman, not a man, but I know what you said is true coz I feel the same way for the hubby as well. Lovely piece! Hits the right note.
Thanks a lot for saying/writing this. I'm so tired of the internet portraying all men as being cheaters! I keep thinking "but my husband doesn't cheat...is he the only one?!" Sometimes all it takes for him to get going is for him to notice my cleavage in a shirt and he's ready to go. We've been married 21 years!!! But I also take very good care of my body for him. I run everyday, watch what I eat and have a better body now than when we were first married. I was always trying to be too skinny (so no breasts!) in my 20's but now I am curvier and run a lot so he is very in love with my 44 yr old body! Another question would be "do all men like breast implants better than the real deal? The real deal obviously lacks the perky look so I was just wondering if men really do like impkants better or the way God really intended breasts to look naturally?