Seems to me sluttyness is in the air as just I answered a similar question earlier today.
At any rate, the good news is that you CAN'T appear slutty in this situation. There is no connection between how exciting (your words) you are in bed and giving off the slut vibes. If anything the more exciting you are the better off your relationship will be. Of course, don't be trying to jam any foreign objects up any of your partner's orifices. That may very well freak them out and send them running.
The only thing wrong you can do here is provide a dull experience, in which case you will appear like a boring, prude, which would be no good at all.
Write a comment..Recently I became reaquainted with an old flame. He had been my first serious boyfriend many years ago. After several months of phone conversations and e-mails, we decided to "rekindle" our relationship and take it to a level we never achieved when we were younger. Our affair lasted 1 1/2 years and and during that time, we were totally devoted to one another. Then, one day he suddenly decided dump me. He gave no explination other than making it a point of telling me that he was a swine. Of course he is, but why would he behave like this? Is he psycho?
Best way is to demand he use protection ! This shows that you respect yourself and that you care about your health. Also before getting to that point, my boyfriend and I discussed it and both had STD tests beforehand just so we could be confident and comfortable with the first "time". It may seem awkward to bring up but hey, if the man wants to take me to bed, that is the least he should be willing to do.