Wow. Okay, this is probably the easiest question I've had so far, except maybe the guy who asked if a curved penis is normal. By the way guy, short answer: yeah, sure, knock yourself out. Long answer: how curved?
STOP ABUSING YOUR BOYFRIEND. Guys tend to play down this sort of thing. If he's told you he's "gotten tired of it," that probably means he wakes up at night in cold sweats after dreaming about your onrushing skullcap.
My wife used to tickle me all the time (which, admittedly, isn't going to get me a restraining order or anything) and I swear that to me, the feeling of being tickled is as terrifying and uncomfortable as vomiting. It's a total loss of control I'm just not comfortable with, and she has since cut it out. Not because I begged and pleaded mind you; just because she got bored. The point is, don't make the mistakes we have made.
If you're having trouble getting yourself to stop, just imagine the roles were reversed. Imagine your girlfriend told you that her guy always hits her "just a little" or smashes his head into hers whenever he sees her. Honestly, what would you do? You would call the police, right? You would classify that as a domestic abuse situation. I'm not trying to say you're physically abusing your boyfriend, but...wait, no, you totally are. Stop doing that.
You are literally punishing your boyfriend every time he thinks you're going to hug or kiss. You are TRAINING YOUR BOYFRIEND NOT TO LIKE YOU. What you are doing is what scientists do with rats and electric shocks to teach them to fear food pellets.
If the visceral thrill of headbutting is worth that, then go for it. Otherwise, you might want to find a new hobby. As you sound fairly x-treme, may I suggest rock climbing or jetsleds?
I had a similar problem, it never got better it just escalated, I never hit him out of anger and he never hit me back, eventually everything just fell apart. It is important that guys vocalize their discomfort before these type of behaviors become routine.
I have a compulsive desire to tweek my boyfriend's nipples. He hates it, but the fact that makes him squirm makes it so much more fun for me. Always turns into wrestling. And that's even more fun. But now your answer has put things into perspective. I should ease up on the nipple tweaking and find a more friendly way to initiate wrestling. Thanks, Swaim.
I'm actually a little creeped out. I do not understand why anyone would punch, to replace hugs...OR headbutt to replace kisses...
What the--
So if all of your displays of affection are replaced with violence, do we even want to know what you do for a bj?
Oh Derek, you slay me.