Interesting question. I think it depends on how we broke up. If it was mutual then I don't think I'd care one way or another. Then again, I'm not much of a Facebook troll either so I might not even know I was blocked.
If I broke up with you, probably the same thing. If I drop you, why would I care what you're doing with your life. I don't want any parts of it. Poof. Be gone.
Where this might matter to some guys (read: some, not particularly me) is if you broke up with me, and I still want you. Then I might be inclined to want to know everything that's going on in your life so I could figure out what you're doing or if you're trying to move on.
Sexist Statement: I really think that Facebook stalking post-breakup is more a chick thing. I could be totally wrong about this, but I can't see a dude really just lurking on your page hoping to get some insight that you'll take him back. No men are more aggressive and insane with it. We'll just stalk you in real life. Men are nuts.
Assuming we're dealing with a slightly insane fellow, I'd think that blocking the page might drive him more crazy. Because then he has NO access to you (without stalking) and heaven knows what you could be putting out there. He might try to get to your page from any locale possible. So that would be my suggestion. Just block him and keep it moving.
Again, somebody like me wouldn't care. But an insane dude...yeah, he'd go nuts.
My ex broke things off with me then had the gall to come at me with 100 questions about what some guy said to me on there. So then I blocked him and he got super pissed. All I could do was shake my head and tell him, "I'm not your mailbox to piss on so other guys can leave me alone, when you don't even want me."
Move on. Best thing you can do.
I deleted and block my ex after I broke up with him. I knew he'd cyber stalk me cause he wasn't happy w/ the breakup. I didn't do it to be mean I did it so he wouldn't obsess about what I was doing. Think--if you didnt get any info after about 2 weeks you'd let if go but if you still had access you could go on forever. I did him a favor really, lol.
how long were you guys together?
how long were you guys together?
My ex broke up with me, so I blocked him to keep myself from seeing his name and face since we have a lot of mutual friends and I was very upset. His mom was a very dear friend to me, so I kept her on there thinking it was harmless. He would go on her profile and keep up with everything I was doing. I'm not nearly over him either... but I definitely didn't need to know what he was doing at all hours of the day
I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago.. I went to Canada for a month in December and when I came back he was a completely different person, treating me terribly, ignoring me when we went out and just being a general douche. And the whole time he kept saying he didn't want to break up, so after I broke it off he acted like he was the one who got hurt and would go on fb and post his single status in my newsfeed and just do and say things to hurt me. He'd been my best friend for over a year before we started dating, and he spent 3 months convincing me to date him, twilling me I mean the world to him. So, I just thought to myself why am I putting up with this crap now? I don't deserve to be treated like this, and so I blocked him. It seems so trivial, and he was so offended, butnreally what did he expect? I dint have to sit around and be hurt by him over something as stupid as fb! So , blocking him was the best thing :) and I'm one giant step closer to moving on!
I have seen lots of times how guys stalke their girlfriends. Like aaaaa lot.