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Generally speaking, is it easy for a man to orgasm during oral sex? I gave my man a BJ two times and he came twice,i don't have any former experience so i don't know if he was faking it or not, but he did ejaculate...

There is really no way to fake an orgasm by way of blowjob. If a man wants to fake an orgasm during sex he can, provided he is wearing a condom, or if he is super crafty and pulls out to pretend-climax into a near by bush or towel that he then burns.
 
But when it comes to oral sex, they're only two outcomes. Stop this isn't working, or stop this worked. In terms of easiness... that is a difficult question to answer, or rather, an answer that won't leave you satisfied. Some men do come quick. Some men don't. Some men sometimes come quick if the feeling is right. Some men who usually come quick won't come if the bj is awful or the vibe is terrible.

In terms of nailing down an actual time, ah hell, you've inspired me and I'm going to throw out a number. Eight. If your man isn't close to coming by eight minutes, it's time to switch up technique or ask him if everything's cool.

 
Above all else, the penis itself is a terrific indicator for how well the bj is going. It is man's measuring stick. If it's veering limp - not going so well. If it's building in stiffness and his body and breathe seems to move to your motions - 2 thumbs up! You are well on your way.
 
Remember, though, don't be so quick to blame yourself if the bj isn't going great. He can be anxious, drunk, depressed, hung over, insecure, or all of these things. It's a misconception that men aren't emotional creatures too. Often times, if he's not going to climax or even that hard, don't be hard on yourself. Stop the show and check in with the penis's owner.


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Miss Somnus

I think the number 8 could be an useful figure!
What will a man think if the girl only give him oral sex(surely he'll orgasm) but without intercourse sex? Will he think that's no sex at all?

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I think this person copy and pasted this question to EVERY guy speaker. haha

Cary McNeal

She did, and it happens all the time. People try to hedge their bets, but I skip questions asked to everyone.

Tariana

This is one of those times even FG and MM didn't check which questions got answered already. LOL

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Wow a TRIPLE answer!!! This person hit pay dirt.

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Or do you know of any writing sites at all that I could post blogs on, sort of like having a whole website to myself?

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