By “amazing bedroom skills,” I assume you mean she always makes the bed neatly, doesn’t leave crumbs under the covers, knows how to match throw pillows with sheets, etc.? A woman who is skilled in the bedroom arts is always welcome in my home.
Why do I have to pick just one? My girlfriend possesses all of those qualities. (I’m sure the rest of the guys would agree with me in terms of their significant others.) Why would I want someone who only has one thing going for them? That’s going to get boring, even if we’re just talking about a one-night stand.
Fine, I’ll pick two: personality and sense of humor. Both never fail to excite me. You think I’m full of it, right? Most guys would go for the pretty face first, you say. Well, I live in a city where I am surrounded by gorgeous women every day. I could trip on the sidewalk and literally fall into the arms of a supermodel. A pretty face isn’t enough. I fall for women who make me laugh; women whose thoughts and opinions challenge me to put down my comic books and read Huffington Post or The Nation every once in a while. Someone who shares some of my interests (karaoke, music, pop culture trivia, etc.), but who also introduces me to new things. Sure, I may not get all of that on the first date, but if I’m bringing her home, it’s going to be for more reasons than just “SHE IZ THE HOT.”
If he’s only into you for one reason, you aren’t building the foundation for a lasting relationship. Similarly, if you think men will only be interested in you for one thing (face, body, personality, etc.), you’re selling yourself short and limiting the types of guys you’ll meet. Expect better of men, and you’ll meet someone worth your time.