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Guys, choose ONLY one to bring home: girl with good personality, good sense of humor, sexy body, beautiful face or amazing bedroom skills?

By "amazing bedroom skills," I assume you mean she always makes the bed neatly, doesn't leave crumbs under the covers, knows how to match throw pillows with sheets, etc.? A woman who is skilled in the bedroom arts is always welcome in my home.

Why do I have to pick just one? My girlfriend possesses all of those qualities. (I'm sure the rest of the guys would agree with me in terms of their significant others.) Why would I want someone who only has one thing going for them? That's going to get boring, even if we're just talking about a one-night stand.

Fine, I'll pick two: personality and sense of humor. Both never fail to excite me. You think I'm full of it, right? Most guys would go for the pretty face first, you say. Well, I live in a city where I am surrounded by gorgeous women every day. I could trip on the sidewalk and literally fall into the arms of a supermodel. A pretty face isn't enough. I fall for women who make me laugh; women whose thoughts and opinions challenge me to put down my comic books and read Huffington Post or The Nation every once in a while. Someone who shares some of my interests (karaoke, music, pop culture trivia, etc.), but who also introduces me to new things. Sure, I may not get all of that on the first date, but if I'm bringing her home, it's going to be for more reasons than just "SHE IZ THE HOT."

If he's only into you for one reason, you aren't building the foundation for a lasting relationship. Similarly, if you think men will only be interested in you for one thing (face, body, personality, etc.), you're selling yourself short and limiting the types of guys you'll meet. Expect better of men, and you'll meet someone worth your time.

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I think questions like this are stupid- no one has just ONE of those traits and none of the others. We do not live in a black-and-white world; people are multi-faceted.

Mannon

" Expect better of men, and you'll meet someone worth your time."

Wow. This statement alone answers most of the questions I've read on this site. I'm putting this in my quote book. Molte bravo, Nick.

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I agree, but if you want to get your "foot in the door" it does help if you're a "sexy mofo"!

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Yeah, but these questions are always asked, because it's either a cynical old biddy prompting the questoining or it's a company's way of getting women with low self-esteem to read their magazine and be pleasantly surprised when the opposite sex isn't as piggish as we assume.

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Where do I begin my nightmare. I met a man a man I thought was a 20 year retired navy seal team 6 black opps who served his country with honor. It wasn't long and I fell deeply in love with who I thought he was.
Our first date, he pinned his trident on my top. He has the gift of gab and would sit back for hours talking of him being a seal and all the medals he possessed of which I never saw. He was so vague with me when I would question what he had been through and how well he came out without any problems.
That is until I googled him and found out he didn't have a highly decorated father, a mother that put in 30 years in the air force, a sister in homocide in DC and a brother who was a big shot lawyer. Two months ago he went to visit his parents...
I found his parents are dead, he has two children after saying he had none and he basically lives off women he meets that take care of him because he is so honorable. It sickens me that I was so gullable.
He threatened my life and I just returned from getting a protective order against him all because I found him out to be a liar and his free ticket with me expired. He is stalking me and texting me that he could have taken me out at 10:10 p.m. when I went out of my apt as I walked to meet my daughter. Chills ran through my body. So I have a crazy sociopath on my hands...
These men that tell these tall navy seal stories have a screw loose and egos that need feeding. Be very careful especially if you are like me,,,approachable and caring. That just seems so sad to me that my life will never be the same.
Sad in Vegas

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