No. Okay, there's a tiny chance. Nothing is impossible. Implausible, yes. But not impossible. The only way you'll ever even get close to having a chance to get back with this guy is to leave him alone. Only by giving him the space he obviously wants do you set yourself up for a future where the two of you can rebuild your relationship. Even then, there are no guarantees. You two are starting out two steps before square one.
Be patient, humble, and start dating again. That's all you can do right now.
He doesn't want to talk to you, much less get back together with you. How do I know this? I'm magic. Also: he blocked your number. I'm assuming you want to get back together with him because you still care about him, right?
Start caring about him by respecting what it is that he wants: time away from you.
You called him alot, huh? Like, too much. He put up a boundary, complete with moat and barb-wire fence. He's healing, or is still pissed at you, or is just over the drama. He blames you for whatever. And all you want is to explain yourself, or beg for forgiveness, or just hear the sound of his voice. Sometimes, you love someone so much hearing their familiar voice, even when soaked in anger, is preferable to a lonely silence.
But that is all moot. Give him what he wants. Being stalker-y is a bad personal choice.
Honey, he blocked your number. Obviously, he doesn't want anything to do with you. Trying to get back together with him smells of desperation. Don't be a stalker. Move on and don't do whatever it was that caused him to block you again. If you're not sure what it was that you did, refer back to "Don't be a stalker."
When a dude blocks your number that is a major hint .. MAJOR.
But she LOVES him!!!!
And if movies have taught us anything, it's that the longer you stalk persist with your affections, regardless of how unwanted, he'll eventually realise he loves you back!
Just walk right through that restraining order honey!
I like how you tagged it "Stalker" LOL
Favourite part... "He doesn't want to talk to you, much less get back together with you. How do I know this? I'm magic". :/ This isn't a tough one. I mean. Its tough for your. But in reality - its real simple. BACK AWAY FROM THE PHONE... Slowly. No proceed to your front door. See outside. Life. Go live it.
"Being stalker-y is bad personal choice" I smell bumper sticker.
Why would you want to be with someone who does that anyway? You all are a little harsh to refer to the situation as a "stalker". We really don't know the whole situation to judge or assume.
I completely disagree with what they are saying, to a degree. Once I found out how to "block" people, we(me and my guy) have been blocking each other like nobodys business when we get upset. It's just as easy to unblock. Its basically like not answering the phone when they call, but more prominent.
That said, if you don't have a history of said "blocking", I can't say for sure. Just saying a blocking of number doesn't mean IT'S OVER YOU CRAZY BEECHO. But it can, but it might not.
PS...we have both blocked and unblocked so often, that we wish we could block ourselves from blocking each other. Shame on technology, and fast to blocker couples
Is there a block button? I don't understand the term "blocks my calls" but if I may add blocking calls is kind of cowardly. If I don't want to talk to you anymore, I'll just tell you and I respect the same courtesy. It really only hurts for a minute, better than spending hours of my day wondering, "is it me? Did I do something wrong. Can I fix it?" These are the questions that drive people to stakarish tendencies, the mystery behind the blocking of my calls.
If people were just a tad more up front maybe that'd be helpful, but on the other hand some people are born stalkers aren't they, can't be helped
hard to tell as there are not a lot of details in the question, but sometimes people just don't get the hint that you want them to stop calling and need a very clear signal. the fact that she had to ask "is there a chance to get back together?" seems like she might have a hard time getting a clue.
I say he doesnt want her. If he do he will call her but if I was her, I would move on to bigger and better things...
From what it sounds like they probably havent known each other for awhile. If its less than 6 months I really think you should leave him alone...
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I was seeing this guy for a year and a half(im in high school) and he had cheated on me 5 times before but i stilll loved him. But then things got rocky and my phone would be taken away and i would talk to him on my friends phones but then he broke his phone and it was a huge mess. then when he got his phone back, he was different. We had switched to different schools, so i never saw him. But something was off when we would talk, and he would never come over. so one night we had planned to meet up at a hockey game and i was there with my friends and texting him from a friends phone. he said he would be there but then said that his parents were mad and wanted him homme. but the next day the girl he had cheated on me with before had posted pictures of them togetherthat night. after that he never talked to me and he blocked my number. i would try to talk to him from others peoples phones but then he just changed his number. Did i cross the line? Idk. cause he came over two months after and completley led me on again, but then two days later told me to go kill myself and that i would be better off dead. what do i do. i cant stop thinking its my fault
Hi
I am the blocker in this situation - I blocked this guy out of my life simply because I could not take the fact he was not treating me right. It does not mean I do not want to speak to him or don't love him, it just means I need space. And I told him man times to slow it down, but he kept on persisting. Yes, so I got sick of that and decided to block him. I am angry at the moment, so I do not want any contact from him - Maybe things will work out in time - But at this stage I CBF.
So give it time, but don't hold your breath, because in the process you may suffocate honey.
Best of luck
I am the blocker in my situation as well. We'd been seeing each other for 1.5 years and are older. I found his dating profile, new on at that, had been active within last 24 hours.
He said that he had in fact put it up, that he had in fact been dating other women when we were in a quiet period (me assuming he was overseas); he had plenty of times to tell me he only wanted a casual relationship which would have allowed me to leave with my dignity intact. Instead he lied about his intentions, strung me along, broke a date that HE had said he was looking forward to, between telling me how much I mean to him. Of course, interspersed with yelling at me for wanting to end things.
I puked. I blocked his emails. I blocked his phone number. I need space away from him and us. I need time to get my head wrapped around his lies and deceit. I need an end to his drama... and the only way for ME to stop wondering if he called, hope he called, wishing he'd send a smoke signal to say how truly sorry he is, was to block him.
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I know this guy for 23 years he is the love of life, he blocked my number because I was calling him and texting him at least 2-4 times a month. We were really great friends until after 23 years we slept together once. After that point every thing went downhill, it's very complicated, and we are both married and not in love with our significant other. Now I have no way of contacting, I'm not even sure why he's so upset with me. I do know he always tell me not to call or text. Im afraid I lost him for good
I have known this guy on and off for 3 years. He and i never saw eye to eye on our relationship. I am a christian and do not care to have sex so, I just hang out with him...only him from time to time. He wants to get physical and I have been pushing him off sexually for he past 3 yrs. A couple of weeks before thanksgiving, he took me to this nice jazz restaurant and we had a nice time. No sex. Just to give you history on our relationship, he took my son to a few places over the years and even picks him up for me from time to time from aftercare. When he tries to get physicial, I always remind him of fornicating and he just says, I wish you were not like that because I could be very happy with you." Most recently I took him out to dinner and a movie. We got home about 1130 and I dropped him off at home. He got so mad that I would not come in to hang out. I had to get up early Sunday to teach Sunday school to the 4 yr olds and had to have my mind rested in order to hear from the holy spirit while teaching. Anyway he got really mad this time and blocked my number. He kept calling that night but I sent him a text explaining that I was in the bed and why I could not come in. He said i would regret my decision. The next day when i tried to call him...he had blocked my number. Now I get emails and facebook updates that he is in a relationship and in his words...she and I are US. that really hurt me because I really did care for him. He emailed me and said his new girlfriend spends plenty of time with him and wants to be in a relationship. That he is very happy...I wanted to stay friends but he told me that he does not wish to hang out with me in any capacity. I am very hurt....because i truly cared for him.
You only feel hurt because you was up front and honest. I wonder if we were dating the same guy, He sounds very familiar to the guy I dated. One thing as a Christian you have to stand your ground. Anyone that does not respect it or wait and develop a relationship with you is not worth having you and isn't serious about a relationship with you in the first place. Women we go into a relationship with our hearts and not with biblical dating. Read Waiting Before Dating by Miles Monroe. Always stand your ground. Feel proud that you did. You can't live without God but you can make it without that person, because he can't edify you nor will fully understand your Christian walk at this stage. Your stand will always stay in his memory and believe me you are respected. So get rid of the why because you can't answer for him but on your side you know why,Jesus.
You only feel hurt because you was up front and honest. I wonder if we were dating the same guy, He sounds very familiar to the guy I dated. One thing as a Christian you have to stand your ground. Anyone that does not respect it or wait and develop a relationship with you is not worth having you and isn't serious about a relationship with you in the first place. Women we go into a relationship with our hearts and not with biblical dating. Read Waiting Before Dating by Miles Monroe. Always stand your ground. Feel proud that you did. You can't live without God but you can make it without that person, because he can't edify you nor will fully understand your Christian walk at this stage. Your stand will always stay in his memory and believe me you are respected. So get rid of the why because you can't answer for him but on your side you know why,Jesus.
The truth is standing in my face and yet I don't want to take it in. My ex accused me of being needy when he was the one initially texting me, checking all my network status updates pouncing all over my face and even going out to find me if I came home late from work. Sweet right? Then all of a sudden it came to a cool down, especially when he restablished regular contact with his admirers. Hmm...he couldnt figure out why I was losing sleep after that plus I had some massive problems at work. Thing is we went through so much together, him having personal self esteem issues of his own (which changed slowly as yours truly dragged him out of his self pitying cave) and me just knowing that someone was there as a shoulder to cry on. It worked well until I got fed up of the 180 degree turnaround and asked what the hell was going on. He whinged about me being needy and needing some space. Then he proceeded to make himself look out of the relationship and single, the moody little twat. Next thing I know I've been updated by friends that his 'Me' time was full of pain and anguish, bla de bla and self hating-something he didnt experience when we were together. Yet when I initiated (yes Me again) contact with a postive hope he mopes about how we may not be happy together anymore. MISERABLE SOD. The last time I heard about him he's moving on with his DVDs and feels alot better now because he's the one who dumped me. if I took a backseat in the relationship I wouldnt feel so affected, now I just feel used for someones self esteem and image (he was really, really scruffy, nits and all) and he's using life's little relationship lessons on someone else very soon if not now. And yes he's blocked me, fb and phone number. JERK. It's only just taken 2 weeks of pain and anguish to realise that I deserve a helluva lot better and he was nothing more than a test of my patience and dedication.
The truth is standing in my face and yet I don't want to take it in. My ex accused me of being needy when he was the one initially texting me, checking all my network status updates pouncing all over my face and even going out to find me if I came home late from work. Sweet right? Then all of a sudden it came to a cool down, especially when he restablished regular contact with his admirers. Hmm...he couldnt figure out why I was losing sleep after that plus I had some massive problems at work. Thing is we went through so much together, him having personal self esteem issues of his own (which changed slowly as yours truly dragged him out of his self pitying cave) and me just knowing that someone was there as a shoulder to cry on. It worked well until I got fed up of the 180 degree turnaround and asked what the hell was going on. He whinged about me being needy and needing some space. Then he proceeded to make himself look out of the relationship and single, the moody little twat. Next thing I know I've been updated by friends that his 'Me' time was full of pain and anguish, bla de bla and self hating-something he didnt experience when we were together. Yet when I initiated (yes Me again) contact with a postive hope he mopes about how we may not be happy together anymore. MISERABLE SOD. The last time I heard about him he's moving on with his DVDs and feels alot better now because he's the one who dumped me. Thing is if I took a backseat in the relationship I wouldnt feel so affected, now I just feel used for someones self esteem and image (he was really, really scruffy, nits and all) and he's using life's little relationship lessons on someone else very soon if not now. And yes he's blocked me, fb and phone number. JERK. it has taken me 2 weeks to realise that I deserve a helluva lot better and all he ever was was a test of my patience and dedication.
Here's an advice for every girl out there: Never, ever settle. You may think you aren't gorgeous or smart or have too many insecurities to count. But there is going to be someone in the world who truly loves you for you. Don't ever think that you've got to put up with some boy's rudeness because he's the first one in a long time to show some interest. You are all beautiful in your own individual way, so never lower your standards.It is only when your ex sees that you are doing well on your own will he consider getting back with you
Me and my ex dated for over a year and lived together for the last 3 months of our relationship. (I am 24 he is 25). I own a condo, which inevitably, has an HOA and he had 2 large dogs - one German Shepard and one Australian Shepard. My HOA did not allow large dogs and we were forced to decide what to do with our current situation...we had 21 days before faced with a lawsuit. Should he move out with the dogs? Should we move out together? Should he get rid of the dogs? Getting rid of the dogs was completely out of the question to him. To make a long story short, we argued quite a bit over our situation and what we were going to do and eventually I got so angry that I told him that I wanted him to start paying rent rather than a portion of the bills. He got angry and said, and I quote, "You just changed the dynamic of our relationship" and he moved out the next morning. As time passed and I reflected on all of my wrong-doings in the causation of our relationship to come to an end, I felt guilty. I, of course, as most girls do, took on all of the blame. I hated myself. I got so caught up in anger and emotion and forced him out of my house!! I, again, hated myself. I called him 3 days later and he answered his phone as if he didn't know it was me. He said "This is Ralph..." When I said hi, hung up. I tried calling and emailing a few days later, but he ended up blocking my number and I couldn't get ahold of him. I did NOT stalk or call too many times. I called once, and once was enough to make him block my number. Some people have told me that he needed time to heal and that he was hurting, and that was the reason he blocked my number. Again, long story short...he got into another relationship 3 weeks later. He met her on match.com. I know that because I was on match too. (That's actually how we met). In the end, although I have accepted the hard truth that we are no longer together, I am still dumbfounded at how quickly he moved on. Is this new "relationship" his rebound? Rebounds are supposed to be quick, but they've been dating for over a month. Very confusing! Are we EVER going to talk again? Is he EVER going to realize that we had a wonderful relationship other than the fact of being faced with such a hard decision that ultimately broke us apart? Probably not. So, my advice to all of you out there is this: Don't live your life in the past. Move forward and realize that every single thing (down to the fact that he blocked your number) happens for some reason or another. I can't continue to live a life full of "what if's" or "I wish I had just's". It's over. And when one heavy door slams shut, a small window will fly open. Sometimes you don't notice it right away, but it's there. :)