This question confuses me (well aside from the lack of an actual question), but I decided I wanted to address this one anyway.

So again, I'm confused. You say "after 8 months...." in some type of , "I can't believe he did that way." But from the wording it sounds like he was trying to marry you but you said no. Is that what happened? And you are upset about this? Sounds like your fault. Or even if its not your fault, he wanted to get married and you didn't so you all had no choice but to split.

On to the rest. So he's got a new boo but keeps contacting you. Here's a better question, why do you allow him to do so? Why are you actively participating in these convos. If you weren't, he'd stop calling. My guess is that dude still has feelings for you and either the new girl doesn't know or doesn't care.

But here's where it falls apart for me. Again, you are sounding like he should stop contacting you - and maybe he should - but my guess is you enjoy it too. Maybe you didn't want to break up you just weren't ready to get married so you're glad he's still chirping around your nest. You even feel like you've got some type of leg up on the new girl from eHarmony. But whats the point? Nobody is winning in this situation.

So "why me still?" Well because you keep talking back to him. You haven't let go either. He wants you in his life and you want him too.

Bingo.