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He poked me on Facebook. Does it really mean he wants "something" from me? I personally think poking is really dumb (and we're in college, not middle school). Note that the guy is really hot.

Hang on, I'm making a note. (scribbling) "Guy... is... hot." No, wait (erasing, scribbling)... "Guy...is...really...hot." Okay, duly noted.

Poking... I was never 100% sure about that either. I think it means that the poker wants to talk to you right away, although if you wanted to talk, you would be on chat, no? So if you're not on chat and someone wants to talk, they poke you. I think. Hell, I don't know. Every time I get Facebook figured out, they go and change it.

Whatever it means, I'm sure the guy wants "something"--maybe a virtual poke now and a different kind of poke later, ifyaknowhatimean wink wink.

Here's an idea: ask him. Why dost thou poketh me?

Rocket science, it's not.

Thanks for the question.


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I always figured it was a way of reminding someone you exist with minimal effort. In a friendly or flirty way, it's a way if keeping them on your mind and relevant. Send him a message, if he replies in a flirty way, chances are it was a flirty poke

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If you poke each other over 10 times you have to have sex. Facebook rules.


I've seriously never got the point of the random poke.

chrissie1101

lolol your answers kill me

kamakula

Hmm, a really hot guy poking you? Well, before we can answer your question, we need to know whether you yourself are really hot, average, or ugly?

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A poke is just a way to get someone's attention. It's like winking I guess.

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It's an easy, noncommital way to flirt. You can leave it open to so many interpretations, but 8 out of 10 (guesstimate, but I'm sure it's fairly accurate) times, a poke from the opposite sex has at least some notes of flirtatiousness in it. But again - easy way out.

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It's an easy, noncommital way to flirt. You can leave it open to so many interpretations, but 8 out of 10 (guesstimate, but I'm sure it's fairly accurate) times, a poke from the opposite sex has at least some notes of flirtatiousness in it. But again - easy way out.

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I remember when I was newer to facebook over 4 years ago and it was really easy to accidentally poke people. One time I accidentally poked a male cousin of mine and the next day saw my friend joined a group called stop poking each other and just have sex already. I never clued in to the fact that is was flirtatious before reading that and then was like Ahh I just poked my cousin! Ahh his name is Jan Micheal! (Like George Michael from arrested development. haha). But yes i guess I see how it could be flirty in a junior high/ high school kinda way

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Why would he bother 'poking' you if he 'just wasn't that into you'? Poke him back! And let us know what happens! ;)

smijepacha

Poking is lame. I'm a grown up (mid 30s). None of my friends or family poke each other. My opinion, its juvenile. I thought I had blocked an ex from FB. Turns out I didn't. Broke up Jan of 2011 and have had no contact whatsover. Then last week out of the blue I get a friggin poke. I blocked him straightaway.

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Poking is lame. I'm a grown up (mid 30s). None of my friends or family poke each other. My opinion, its juvenile. I thought I had blocked an ex from FB. Turns out I didn't. Broke up Jan of 2011 and have had no contact whatsover. Then last week out of the blue I get a friggin poke. I blocked him straightaway.

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Never did understand the poking thing. Besides, if poking meant flirting, I am apparently bisexual and all my other friends are too. Go figure.

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heres whats up. im 21, i poke chicks all the time. it is basically saying i dont want to have to think of something to say to you but would like to know if your interested first. he pokes you cause he thinks your hot, he wants you. if you poke him back he will think you want him too, do it a few times and he will message you and then you can see if you wanna hangout with him.

makes wheeling way easier and cuts down on time spent talking to girls that arent interested in you in the first place. straight up.

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