So he’s had sex before, and he’s constantly talking about sex, yet he somehow can’t have sex anymore? Did his religion just kick in?
I really don’t get this. I understand that some people wait until marriage due to their spiritual or ethical beliefs. But neither of you waited. Both of you cashed in your v-cards already. There’s no such thing as re-virgin-ifying yourself. so you’re not getting any morality bonus points for declaring yourselves off limits and then waiting until marriage.
My advice is to have a serious conversation about why he feels this way. Why did he decide on taking this step now? What does he want to gain? How important is this to him? After you talk through all of that, think about his answers. Can you deal with no sex until marriage? Can you deal with his constant sexual self-aggrandizing? So take his answers, and take your answers, and figure out if you want both the man and this particular, weird situation in your life.