My guess is that he's psyching himself out now and become a victim of performance anxiety. It has nothing to with you so much as he's counting himself out of the game before he can really get going.
I mean, I've found that even smanging a chick I had very little attraction to didn't stop me from staying hard. It probably (and more than likely) ended the session early. Way early. But it beez that way sometimes. It was nice of you to try to give your boyfriend an out but probably not very helpful, especially if he has a lot of pride and would rather blame you than him.
I don't know him so there's a good chance he wouldn't do that. But maybe he could use some help. Maybe he needs to talk to somebody about his issues and whatever is holding him back and perhaps pop a pill to get his confidence back up. Hell, it might help if you just sit and talk to him and work through it together so that he knows you aren't laughing at him on the inside.
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