There's nothing wrong with you. Every woman is different. Some like nipple play, some don't. Some love getting oral sex, others can take it or leave it. Some love foot rubs, some don't want you anywhere near their nasty hooves. Everyone's erogenous zones are different. You are fine.
If your boyfriend knew as much about women as he thinks he does, he would know that there's no "one size fits all" approach that works in the sack. That's a cover, anyway: he goes for your boobs because he likes it (who can blame him?), otherwise he would listen to you and do something else that you enjoy more.
If you want to let him do it because he enjoys it, fine, but he needs to know that no matter how much he fancies himself a master suckler, you'll probably never get much out of it. And that's perfectly okay.
Thanks for the question.
Hey! Don't worry, you're not weird at all. I don't really feel much with nipple and boob play either. I let guys do it cause I am pretty sure they are enjoying themselves. Sometimes it feels alright if I ask them to do it a little harder, have you tried that? Depending on how old and experienced the guy is, I've found that a few I've been with have thought that boobs were really sensitive like a guy's balls, so they were really careful with them. Once they new they weren't gonna break me or hurt me they went to town.
I'm the exact same way. I told my boyfriend I don't get much out of it, but it turns me on seeing him get so much out of it. It works for us. =]
Why do the guys on here mainly answer sex questions only? BOOO! Boring!
I would agree with you if your statement were accurate, but it's not so I don't.
Besides--I do fewer sex questions than anybody, except maybe Nick. Take your complaint to one of the other pervs. Thx.
I don't know how many times I told an ex that I didn't like the way he was goofing around with my boobs. Some men don't listen. That's a red flag. Get out if he isn't listening to the most basic stuff.
For me it's not a matter of it not doing anything, it's that they're waaaay too sensitive for anything, and it definitely bothers me. You're not weird. Trust me :)
Also, a big part of the reason why he feels that you like it, is cause of porn. Well, probably anyways. haha.
You're not alone - I couldn't care less about my nipples and I can barely feel them. He can suck them if he wants to but it doesn't do a thing for me! The only thing about it that turns me on is watching how much it turns him on.
Hahaha, I love hearing about how other guys are retarded in bed. It makes me feel like a love god just because I’ve memorized erogenous zones and like to explore with kisses, light touches and massages to see what gives the best reactions. Sometimes a soft touch and a whisper is enough, other times you need to bite and use a bit of force. Finding that out is what makes foreplay fun.
Haven’t been with a lot of women, but that always seems to work out alright.
Men should treat nipples like they like their testicles treated--tenderly. Sucking a woman's nipples is not erotic--it hurts!
One more can't-feel-much pair of boobs commenting here!
I get much more out of my guy just holding my funbags (I love dr. House). The warmth is much more enjoyable than any pinching, sucking or licking of my nipples. On a sensitive day it's just awful, on a less sensitive day it just doesn't do a thing. My neck and the valley between the hills are much more sensitive areas for me.
It's a bit of a red flag your guy is saying "I know what women like". You could try to go about pulling his ball hair and biting his sides (gently! I'm not telling you to actually harm him!) and telling him pointedly that _you_ know what men like if he complains.