Guyspeak Newsletter Signup

Mystery Man

 
Next Answer »
userpic
userpic

He's just staring at my boobs from across the room isn't he? How do I make it so he stares at my face?

Yes, he is staring at your boobs. If you put them back inside your shirt, he will have nothing left to stare at but your face. This is assuming that you have a face he wants to look at. You may have a great rack but above the neck may be blecchh. If this is the case, he may just look away entirely. Either way, cover up the ladies and you should be good to go.

Talk 14
Love it? Hate it? 11
Got A Question? Ask Your Own. »

14 Comments

user-pic

hahaha usually your short posts annoy me. This one is right on, though. What do u expect guuurlllll? you should be flattered that you have boobs that warrant staring.

user-pic

That was lame.. Its ok for a guy to objectify you because you have breasts? I'd hurl a drink at him, that'd cool him off

user-pic

What's the ratio of guys that wear shirts cut at the neck, or far below vs. women? It's not like they NEED to breathe. Like saying a guy walking around in a banana hammock isn't looking for attention.

prettylady

Women tend to be heavier than men and a v-neck is actually the most flattering of cuts. Plus, men in America typically dont wear v-neck, but its very popular in Europe.
It doesnt matter, its still rude, creepy, and immature to stare.

rxy

I can't help but think maybe he's just starting at your breasts...because he just wants to. He's not talking to you, because he probably doesn't want to, he just wants to stare at "yo jubblies".

That said, I have pretty big breasts and I never take them out for a test spin...because they're so damn big, and I can assure anyone, guys still stare at them.

I would just say to myself that he's staring at them because he likes to. period.

Gee

never understood why so many women get insulted when men stare at their breasts. Take it as a compliment!!! I'd only be bothered if I were trying to have a conversation with the guy and he kept getting distracted.

prettylady

its creepy because its like they are getting pleasure from you and you can't stop them. They are basically using you for pleasure, and you're not in control. Its just gross, especially with a man who looks like a creep. he probably goes home and like jacks off to people he sees who he thinks are attractive. grossness.

Gee

And you've never stared at some guy's biceps/pecs/back muscles/butt?

I still see nothing wrong with that... it's not like he's following you home or sending you creepy messages :/

Gee

Plus, I find it a rather judgmental thing to say that because you find someone who looks "creepy" it automatically means they are.

prettylady

I've looked at guys body's of course, but I dont stare. Staring is a fixation. Of course I've noticed a nice body but I dont like stay looking and make the guy feel uncomfortable.
Admittedly there is a double standard here. When a guy stares at a girl he's kind of a creep and when a girl stares at a guy she's just checking him out. I dont know about you but staring from a guy makes a big difference whether we are alone together or in a crowded area. If I'm a bar or club or something then I think he's just drunk and oggling me, but it doesnt really bother me. If I'm walking around and he's the only guy on the street and he's watching every move i make with my body then of course I'm going to think he's creepy. If he acts like a creep and looks like a creep, he's .... probably a creep. Staring like that is something gentlemen don't do. The reason most women feel uncomfortable is because it makes them feel unsafe, when polled. I'm sure you've crossed the street if you've received "those looks". Lol i kind of lost where I was going with this..... basically i was trying to say I think a guy's much creepier if he was looking at me in a way in which I felt like my safety as a lady being by myself was threatened.

Here in the US, sociologists say we treat strangers with "polite indifference". In our country its a social norm that its rude to stare/gawk at strangers, it makes most people uncomfortable (especially rubbernecking, etc). Gawking at people is a violation of social norms. Im sure you know this because if you've ever stared at someone and they glace at you, you probably glance away, you dont keep staring at them. I guess it depends on how you were raised, but I was told not to stare at people, especially if they have maybe a physical disability or some kind of problem or something. I was told it was rude and kind of an invasion of privacy in some way. Therefore, I may be more inclined than others to think that a guy staring at me is bothering me. I'll rephrase what I've said before to say : staring/gawking at me while I'm alone... I think he's creepy, and staring at me in a public place: he's just a rude guy who lacks class. Plus I find it funny that you call me judgmental when were talking about peopele who stare... who are clearly evaluating others for a prolonged period of time.

Agent Vector

I agree, but at the same time disagree. I'm not particularly well-endowed in this area, but I still get stared at from time to time. I don't wear low necklines or show them off, yet I still get those google-eyed looks. So while this is a good answer to some people, it might not be relevant to everyone. Just a thought.

user-pic

Write a comment...He is staring at them isn't he? It just might be as lude as another set of twins. The bible talks about, "...each one has its twin...a perfect pair...whitewashed teeth...". :) So, if he is looking at my twins, then I sure and heck want to look at his. I just have to remember to remember to brush our teeth. :) Crest Whitening with baking soda rocks. :) apartment522@gmail.com.

user-pic

well i can understand it if the girl is wearing a low cut top and her boobs are lierally hanging out, but why the hell do they stare if you're actually fully covered and not showing or revealing any breasts to them?

Does that mean the guy is only interested in you in a sexual way?

user-pic

Really good site thank you so much for your time in publishing the posts for all of us to learn about.

Leave a comment

(You may use HTML tags for style)

Get GuySpeak in your inbox.

Choose the newsletters you'd like to receive:

Trending Topics

  1. 90 entries are tagged with
  2. 48 entries are tagged with
  3. 57 entries are tagged with
  4. 68 entries are tagged with
  5. 60 entries are tagged with
  6. 57 entries are tagged with
  7. 201 entries are tagged with
  8. 89 entries are tagged with
  9. 795 entries are tagged with
  10. 59 entries are tagged with
  11. 56 entries are tagged with
  12. 86 entries are tagged with
  13. 84 entries are tagged with
  14. 51 entries are tagged with
  15. 51 entries are tagged with
  16. 141 entries are tagged with
  17. 169 entries are tagged with
  18. 58 entries are tagged with
  19. 49 entries are tagged with
  20. 79 entries are tagged with
  21. 58 entries are tagged with
  22. 231 entries are tagged with
  23. 454 entries are tagged with
  24. 95 entries are tagged with
  25. 55 entries are tagged with