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Hey MM, nice hat!How long should I wait for a guy to ask me out before I just do it? My fault, i gave mixed signals (nutshell: he's older,thought he was out of my league, got nervous) when we first met, now he's interested but less aggressive about it. I want to date him! Do I wait and encourage him, or just go for it?

If he's truly interested in you, it's not going to take much of a push on your part to get him to ask him out. It may not take any more than an e-mail or a text message (though I recommend a phone call) to let him know that you would be up for a date.

If you don't prefer the direct approach, then you could use the same rumor mill that you used to find out he's interested to pass him a message that you're interested back. I still recommend the direct approach, though - just call the guy. He'll ask you out.

Don't worry too much about the mixed signals you threw at him before. If he's interested in you despite anything you may have done in the past, then all signs point to a first date some time in the next couple of weeks.

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If guys are interested, they will let you know. YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO GUESS. Dont ever chase guys or contact them, let them do it all the time. Even if you like him, let him come to you, always! Good luck =)

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Some times you do have to contact a guy if you want to express interest. However, you still put the ball in his court if he wants to ask you out.

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If you want to date him than ask him out. If you decide to wait and "let him come to you" you give up all rights to complain when/if he doesn't. As a man in the "horribly thick when it comes to reading how women think of me" category I can tell you that you can send all the "positive signals" in the world and you still might not get through. If you want a shot, ask for one. Men like to be asked out too.

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