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Hey, Mystery Man! I am pretending to be a girl from California to talk to this guy I like via text message. He knows me, but doesn't like me in that way. Should I tell him and have him think I am liar because I betrayed his trust or weep in sorrow alone and loss a great guy? Help, please!

You are a liar. Why should he deny it?

Stop with the dramz. You can't lose something you never had, and you never get sh*t by lying. He doesn't like you that way - BFD! He the only single guy in the village or something?

Grow up.

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What a dumb dumb. Who actually does shit like that.

silkysly

Sad, when you feel the need to lie as an adult..., I just don’t get it.

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wow- what is this? are you kidding me? why the hell would you do that?..its just plain stupid...you lied, so obviously hell think you are a liar...not that complicated to figure out. What possesses someone to do this? really?

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nothing like Drama starters. probebly a teenager or something. if shes an adult thats REALLY sad.

also, how does he not notice the area code is different? just sayin..

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You can chose your number/locale when setting up your cell phone as long as the cell provider has service in that area.

For reasons other than deception, I have a cell number which is way out of my area code.

mindybindy

The tag says it all!

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I am curious the age of some of the people with all these dishonesty issues and not knowing what is ok and what is not. Is this a symptom of all the trash on tv with the reality shows, Jerry Springer and whatever other garbage they watch. It is all drama, dishonesty and basic lack of values. Is that how we have and are raising our next generations? What is up with these people?

To the asker of the question, be kind, honest and have integrity. In the long run you will feel much better about yourself and you will surround yourself with similar people. If that is the type of life you want. If you want dishonesty and drama, keep doing what you are doing and you'll have a life full of that.

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I feel ya, but I for one am a huge Springer fan, and if anything, it's taught me that liars never win, or at least they end up with some disgusting dead-bead after getting their wig ripped off on national TV. =P Anyway, I agree that most questions such as this one HAD to have been asked by someone under the age of 14. At least, I hope so, for the sake of humanity.

Forget the whole lying part for a sec--did she actually think this would somehow work in her favor?? If he already doesn't like her, why would he like her after finding out that she's been creepily pretending to be some made-up girl in another state to talk to him? Bizarre.

Mystery Man

Last time I assumed a questioner was in their teens, they turned out to be pushing 30.

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I am curious the age of some of the people with all these dishonesty issues and not knowing what is ok and what is not. Is this a symptom of all the trash on tv with the reality shows, Jerry Springer and whatever other garbage they watch. It is all drama, dishonesty and basic lack of values. Is that how we have and are raising our next generations? What is up with these people?

To the asker of the question, be kind, honest and have integrity. In the long run you will feel much better about yourself and you will surround yourself with similar people. If that is the type of life you want. If you want dishonesty and drama, keep doing what you are doing and you'll have a life full of that.

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There are teen Hollywood movie versions of Cyrano de Bergerac. That's what this reminds me of...

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this is a teenager no doubt in my mind.... their not smart enough to realize when their being morons

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well - what is done is done ... you can not undo that, but can put it back on track, and in the process may or may not lose the guy...

just tell him, face it- apologize and do not beg to be included in his life or something. accept your mistake- have a heart and let the ball be in his court...

... either way it turns eventually, accept it as good sport


ps: do not discuss with anyone else.

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Does no one know how to be nice? Yes, she was dishonest, but who hasn't made mistakes? She probably already feels bad, there's no need for anyone to make it worse. And to the person who said this: "this is a teenager no doubt in my mind.... their not smart enough to realize when their being morons" I'm seventeen. Teenagers are not stupid. Some are granted, but so are some adults. How can you criticize someone's intelligence when you cannot differentiate between "their" and "they're" or use proper punctuation? Please do not stereotype.

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Can not = 2 words

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