Hold up a second. This question took a weird turn about halfway through. By "top portion," do you mean your breasts? You're asking whether you should get breast augmentation as an older woman? If you want to, it's probably not too late. Just look at the Real Housewives-- most of their body parts are fake. I don't know if there's an age where it's unsafe (though I assume over 50 it gets a little dicey), but consulting with a doctor couldn't hurt. Definitely do the research into the health side effects of implants. Also, realize that some men will be turned off by the idea of fake breasts. On the other hand, you may attract some men you wouldn't otherwise. (Wealthy guys looking for trophy wives perhaps?) Though make sure they're into you for the right reasons.
As for how old the guy should be, that really depends on who you fall for. You can set an age range (say under 55), but what if you meet and fall for a guy younger or older than your range? Are you going to pass him up just because he doesn't fit the age criteria you're looking for? Are you looking to get married? A single guy in his 50s may have already been married at least once, so take that into account. Or, if he's never been married and in his 40s or 50s, that might be a sign that he has no plans to ever marry. Over 65, he may have health problems or at least a Cialis prescription.
If I can be frank, I think you should focus less on an arbitrary age range and enhancing your "top portion," and more on figuring out what type of guy you want. Are you looking for a good man to marry? A rich older guy to take care of you? Or both? Make a list of the attributes you want in a man (caring, sensitivity, sex appeal, sense of humor, etc.) and seek him out. Ask friends to set you up, attend parties, try online dating. At this stage in your life, you'd probably be happier finding someone who loves and cares for you over some old skeezy dude looking for a trophy wife with fake ta tas. As we've seen recently, the "Real Housewife" situation doesn't always end well.
As for how old the guy should be, that really depends on who you fall for. You can set an age range (say under 55), but what if you meet and fall for a guy younger or older than your range? Are you going to pass him up just because he doesn't fit the age criteria you're looking for? Are you looking to get married? A single guy in his 50s may have already been married at least once, so take that into account. Or, if he's never been married and in his 40s or 50s, that might be a sign that he has no plans to ever marry. Over 65, he may have health problems or at least a Cialis prescription.
If I can be frank, I think you should focus less on an arbitrary age range and enhancing your "top portion," and more on figuring out what type of guy you want. Are you looking for a good man to marry? A rich older guy to take care of you? Or both? Make a list of the attributes you want in a man (caring, sensitivity, sex appeal, sense of humor, etc.) and seek him out. Ask friends to set you up, attend parties, try online dating. At this stage in your life, you'd probably be happier finding someone who loves and cares for you over some old skeezy dude looking for a trophy wife with fake ta tas. As we've seen recently, the "Real Housewife" situation doesn't always end well.
My advice...date a good person who make you feel comfortable and happy,doesnt matter the age,just be yourself and enjoy,you are in the best stage of your life!!!
i'm in the same age range as the asker, the guy i'm dating is almost 20 yrs older than me and uh, as far as the other part of the question, hates anything plastic on a woman. he says there's nothing sexier than natural beauty. but back to the age range, nick is dead on. figure out what kind of guy you want and don't put brackets or bookends on the demographics. as soon as i opened my mind to that i met a really really great guy. at first to be honest, i almost let the age thing prevent me from that first date, i really thought about it for about a day after his call to be completely honest. then i figured, who else is asking me out for saturday night, what the hell, it would be nice to dress up and maybe even get a nice meal out of it. it was one of the best dinners of my life and it was b/c of my perspective i think. i don't even notice the age difference because we just click in every way possible, i still cant take my eyes off him. just be yourself, be true to what and who you want and you'd be surprised.
I'm no advocating plastic surgery here, but you could also consider a breast lift if you're concerned that they might not be as perky as they once were, but you don't want the fake feel that some breast augmentations leave. Just a thought...
41 here dating the hottest 55 yo man ever, best sex of my life, most fun I have ever had with somone, very caring, passionate, etc. "60 is the new 40!" You have to look at their true age, not their actual age. We act like teenagers together all the time, having sex in parking lots(in a vehicle), etc. Fun stuff! Good luck! Don't let age stop you from dating someone you may be attracted to.
I am 41 and just had breast augmentation in Feb. I had some issues with one being noticably smaller than the other,.which became more noticeable with age. I did it for myself, not to attract men. And I feel great and look pretty good if I do say so myself :) And although I'd never date them, I've had 20-somethings asking me out and flirting with me and the attention feels good. I never had highs self esteem before. Just do what's best for you!