The best way to get over vengeful feelings is to act on them. Don't do anything that will land you in jail like killing his cat or spray painting his car but hooking up with his best friend would do the trick.
This would accomplish three things: 1) Piss off your ex; 2) make you feel so guilty that you wouldn't feel vengeful anymore; and 3) help you to finally move on.
Good luck!
No , thats terrible advice. The reality is there isn't much you can do. Most likely anything 'vengeful' that one would like to do , could very well land you in jail .
Its normal to feel that kind of emotion, you must have cared for that person so much... But the reality is you wont achieve anything by trying to make that person miserable.
The best revenge is living well, take care of yourself! When you let good things into your life , you'll flourish.
Take your mind off revenge, go for a run , get a hobby, focus on yourself :(
Trust me..When someone hurts me (and does it on purpose) I see red, I tend to go for the jugular. But it has done nothing for me.
Doing something vengeful is only proof that you're still hung up on this person. It might piss him off initially, but he will soon realize that you did it to get his attention because you still care about him.
Stop giving horrible advice, Mystery Man!!!
LOL nice, best tongue in cheek answer, ever.
Pay attention to number 2) people.
Subtlety for the win.
After ending a 10 year relationship, I found the Best things for me to do were to allow time to process and heal, and then work on things that Made ME happy. the best revenge really is to be happy without Him. Trust me, he will sense that you don't need him or want him in your life. And don't give him that much power of over your life anymore. A year after the break up, the Ex still tries to contact ME and I am happily with another man.
Exactly!! Thats how it should be, how desperate would you look if you were trying to plot revenge on this dude!!
Congratulations :) real women move on to bigger and better things!!
Woosh= sound of the joke going right over people's heads.
good advice! just make sure he deserves it.
Well, Getting Over Someone Is Not Easy. But With Time Any Wound Can He Healed.
Btw The Best Way To Get Over Someone, Is To Sorta Replace Them With Someone Else. As Mean As It Sounds It's Kinda Tru.
-Well Good Luck.
I don't agree on acting on it some of those people were right it's not a good idea, but I definitely know how that feels to want to.
Holy shit. I love how many people keep forgetting that MM is MEANT to be an asshole! Look between the lines people!
If you're seriously afraid that you'll go after the douche with a butter knife, your best bet is bitch about it to a therapist and pretend the dingleberry doesn't exist when you do see him. Then tell your girlfriends what lousy equipment he has. That will piss him off royally.